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I’m on both sides of that fence. I don’t enjoy chat so much anymore since I got settled here and I see some people for what they are. But I also find some ignore me too. People are fickle I guess.
I'm sorry for your loss.
I've pondered things from the pet's point of view before. How odd and amazing we must seem to them. They live their whole life and we barely age at all in that time.
We provide for their worldly needs. We forgive them when they err. We help heal them when they are sick or injured. We soothe them when they are confused or scared. We play with them to bring joy to their life. We give them attention and love and care for them. We make the feel safe, and warm, and wanted. And when they are gone we feel great pain; best they can't see that.
Maybe that pain is the cost the universe collects for them having a wonderful life. And we'd do it all over again without even realizing what a bargain it is because all the wonderful things we were able to give to them, they gave to us too.
I should be harder on people instead of being too kind, some don't deserve the nice polite treatment specially online, it's a world of difference but maybe me ignoring most is already a good way of saying go away, some don't understand that people have things to do besides sitting on there phone all day 
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You can try as you might, but in the end. You cannot run from yourself.
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a4tomic
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It's so weird how quickly something can change. Someone can go from being your whole life, to despising them incredibly and wishing they treated you better. One day you could be on top of the world and the next hitting rock bottom. I'm trying to heal myself and let go, and it sucks having such a deep compassion for someone who never ACTUALLY felt the same. Was it nice? Yeah. Will they be happier with someone else? Absolutely. I'm trying to just reinforce to myself all the lows and how there were more lows than highs. Yet its hard when the last couple years all you knew was that person
Though, as much as I don't like to admit it, sometimes I am happy. I've expanded my social circle and actually have people to talk to both online and in person. The truth is, if they loved me they would have tried throughout the multiple chances they were given. When I think about how they didn't, it just makes me angry and hateful towards them... and I have been since that day. But, I know I treated them like a king and they won't ever find anyone like me. Healing comes with time, and time will tell.
Though, as much as I don't like to admit it, sometimes I am happy. I've expanded my social circle and actually have people to talk to both online and in person. The truth is, if they loved me they would have tried throughout the multiple chances they were given. When I think about how they didn't, it just makes me angry and hateful towards them... and I have been since that day. But, I know I treated them like a king and they won't ever find anyone like me. Healing comes with time, and time will tell.
It sucks to constantly doubt people's intentions. To have had experiences in childhood form you into a person who fears betrayal, from everyone. Who fears being abandoned, fears never being enough. Who waits for 'the other shoe to drop', without meaning to. Who has such an awful hard time truly trusting good intentions. I know where it comes from now. Now I need to figure out how to stop. Or at least learn to trust those who are truly genuine *sighs*
a little empathy here. xx
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Playforfun2244
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Feel very lonely at the moment
Saw an exchange in the "would you fuck the user above you" thread that kinda irritated me. Someone said yes they would, the recipient indicated (nicely) that they weren't interested and it wasn't going to happen, and the first user said "I know, but it's a fantasy site so...." A third person chimed in "too many people forget it's a fantasy site and take it way too seriously"
No. Too many people forget that there are real people behind these accounts (in the forums anyway). Fantasies should be consensual. Why should someone have to entertain/put up with your fantasies if they're not into it? And sometimes people invade other people's profiles and inboxes with their fantasies in very blunt terms and that gets really fucking old, especially when the profile makes it clear what they are and aren't interested in.
So no, someone who tells you no isn't "taking things way too seriously". They're telling you something you should listen to, and odds are good that they've had to say it way too many times to way too many people.
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No. Too many people forget that there are real people behind these accounts (in the forums anyway). Fantasies should be consensual. Why should someone have to entertain/put up with your fantasies if they're not into it? And sometimes people invade other people's profiles and inboxes with their fantasies in very blunt terms and that gets really fucking old, especially when the profile makes it clear what they are and aren't interested in.
So no, someone who tells you no isn't "taking things way too seriously". They're telling you something you should listen to, and odds are good that they've had to say it way too many times to way too many people.
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a4tomic
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ABSOLUTELY! Can't stress this enough, and you said it beautifully! Even if people see it as just a website, no means no. Both as much online as it means in person.
Given that I was part of that exchange, I agree to a point. The initial exchange was light hearted but yes the “too many people forget” pissed me off too
Have to agree 100% with @youngbustyredhead and @AmberrUK . The quote "fantasies should be consensual" says it all. The golden rule applies on FCN as it does anywhere else. Sure, things can get naughty, I get that - appreciate that - live that. But consent and agreement are so important. Is it really that fun if both people - or all the involved parties - aren't having fun?
Besides, this is a place to enjoy your fantasies, or build just friendships, or yes, potentially even fall in love. You should be respected here. Anyway, just my two-cents, for what it's worth.
Besides, this is a place to enjoy your fantasies, or build just friendships, or yes, potentially even fall in love. You should be respected here. Anyway, just my two-cents, for what it's worth.
Sites like this attract people for a variety of reasons. Living a fantasy they may not in their daily life can certainly be one of them.
I'm not one to ever venture in the above mentioned thread(s), haven't and won't (to each their own, btw!), because I probably do take it 'too seriously'. That just isn't who I am. If I want to sleep with you, you'll definitely know.
*thinks of Andy and grins*
Anyway. Just to say we all view life, view this site, through a different lens. One made up of our own experiences, our own preferences, our own frame of reference. It's just always important to be respectful of eachother and those differences. Just because this is the internet, and we're all in our anonymous little coccoons doesn't change that xo.
I'm not one to ever venture in the above mentioned thread(s), haven't and won't (to each their own, btw!), because I probably do take it 'too seriously'. That just isn't who I am. If I want to sleep with you, you'll definitely know.
*thinks of Andy and grins*
Anyway. Just to say we all view life, view this site, through a different lens. One made up of our own experiences, our own preferences, our own frame of reference. It's just always important to be respectful of eachother and those differences. Just because this is the internet, and we're all in our anonymous little coccoons doesn't change that xo.
I see a lot of people wearing Purple Rain Tshirts. Interesting and hey why not, iconic movie and album so yeah it's a thing
There are certain songs that just take your breath away. you have to stop and take it it. Feel it.
This poem had the same reaction - please watch it all the way through.
This poem had the same reaction - please watch it all the way through.
Obviously Valentine's Day is about the person you (secretly) love. But to me it's about more, also about people who laugh with me on good days, make me smile, pull me through the not so good ones, and lighten days that sometimes are a little too hard to bear. A day to celebrate love in all it's forms. Wether it be romantic or otherwise.
So while we all know who I'll think of most today *blows a kiss to @Andy_32* .... here's to the rest of you
@Locket44, @Aussiemilf, @AmberrUK, @ConsciousNobody, @vanilla_hips, @Dublinscot, @Simonsaysxxx503, @Smiling_Tom and @Professor_Oral.
Last but not least a dear friend no longer here (just in case he keeps tabs secretly). The Snoopy to my Woodstock, my hand to hold in the dark, Swaggered. I miss you, xo.
And to everyone else who just happens to read this and who I interact with positively here, have a lvely day.
So while we all know who I'll think of most today *blows a kiss to @Andy_32* .... here's to the rest of you
@Locket44, @Aussiemilf, @AmberrUK, @ConsciousNobody, @vanilla_hips, @Dublinscot, @Simonsaysxxx503, @Smiling_Tom and @Professor_Oral.
Last but not least a dear friend no longer here (just in case he keeps tabs secretly). The Snoopy to my Woodstock, my hand to hold in the dark, Swaggered. I miss you, xo.
And to everyone else who just happens to read this and who I interact with positively here, have a l
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