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ThatGuyBen said:
Well, my reoccurring thoughts is how frustrated I am on being so reserved and introverted but yet I'm told by people that I'm the opposite. I struggle to add a comment or join in on a conversation. This happens no matter the social interaction. I just feel like the world does better without me than with me, that in the grand scheme of things, I just one person out of billions.
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Well this could of been written by me.
 
ThatGuyBen said:
Well, my reoccurring thoughts is how frustrated I am on being so reserved and introverted but yet I'm told by people that I'm the opposite. I struggle to add a comment or join in on a conversation. This happens no matter the social interaction. I just feel like the world does better without me than with me, that in the grand scheme of things, I just one person out of billions.
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Not everyone is meant to be an extrovert or master conversationalist and that's okay. Many, including myself, do better in very small groups or one on one. You don't have to open up and join in every conversation, just find your people and you'll be fine. That's all that matters
 
So ..I try not to let people get too close (if they do I push them away)…..I don’t go on chat either ….yet then why do I get to this point when a lot are on chat and I feel lonely ….crazy isn’t it

I sit here like now and imagine everyone in chat having fun but I just can’t go in ….by the way I’m fine …I know some will go she is on the down again but I’m not at all I’m just saying how I feel.
 
Amelia24 said:
So ..I try not to let people get too close (if they do I push them away)…..I don’t go on chat either ….yet then why do I get to this point when a lot are on chat and I feel lonely ….crazy isn’t it

I sit here like now and imagine everyone in chat having fun but I just can’t go in ….by the way I’m fine …I know some will go she is on the down again but I’m not at all I’m just saying how I feel.
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You are not alone in these thoughts. And just so you know…. Fun times in chat are very few and far between hehe
 
Ok. So today I was out and I bumped into a friend of my daughters who I hadn’t seen for ages. After a catch up chat I said let’s take a quick selfie so I can show my daughter when I see her.
I took out my phone and she quickly said, no let me do it with my phone and send it to you. At first I thought well I’m not that crap at taking photos but went with it. She opened an app ( don’t know what one) and there we were totally filtered. When I said something she said she never takes a pic without a filter. WTF? She is a gorgeous girl who doesn’t need any filters. It made me so sad that she felt that way about herself.
We can never live up to the way filters make us look … and shouldn’t feel like we have to.
I hate every photo taken of me when it’s taken but later when I see these pics I just see the good time I was having with people I love or doing something I love.
So to anyone reading this that does the same, I wish you could see yourself the way the people that love you see you.
 
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