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I'm tired of the excuses. You weren't "just joking" or "experiencing a moment of weakness." When you say you're a friend and you respect someone, you don't sexualize them. Plain and simple. You don't pretend to be some charming, friendly person and then DM someone you say you respect and reduce them to a means of getting off. I'm tired of it. Bc these types know they can get away with it by offering some bullshit apology or even acting remorseful. And I end up keeping it hush hush bc I feel like I've done something wrong. Well, I'm done with being nice. If you exhibit this kind of behavior, I will expose you publicly with malice. Bc in your "moment of weakness" you've thrown away what I thought was a safe place, and that can never be undone. And I will no longer protect you from public scorn for your predatory ways. Why should I try to save a friendship you thought so little of you'd reduce me to a vessel for your sexual pleasure, treated me with what amounts to contempt for me as a person and saw me only as a way to get your rocks off? You knew better and you didn't care. Therefore, I no longer care about what I thought was a friendship. You have in effect ruined what I thought were safe places here, and I fear I can't go back bc I will now avoid you. I can't trust you anymore. You've made me feel worthless

This is what you do when you sexualize someone who thought you respected them. I hope more of you take notice and stop being the icks you say you despise
 
Bailey94 said:
I'm tired of the excuses. You weren't "just joking" or "experiencing a moment of weakness." When you say you're a friend and you respect someone, you don't sexualize them. Plain and simple. You don't pretend to be some charming, friendly person and then DM someone you say you respect and reduce them to a means of getting off. I'm tired of it. Bc these types know they can get away with it by offering some bullshit apology or even acting remorseful. And I end up keeping it hush hush bc I feel like I've done something wrong. Well, I'm done with being nice. If you exhibit this kind of behavior, I will expose you publicly with malice. Bc in your "moment of weakness" you've thrown away what I thought was a safe place, and that can never be undone. And I will no longer protect you from public scorn for your predatory ways. Why should I try to save a friendship you thought so little of you'd reduce me to a vessel for your sexual pleasure, treated me with what amounts to contempt for me as a person and saw me only as a way to get your rocks off? You knew better and you didn't care. Therefore, I no longer care about what I thought was a friendship. You have in effect ruined what I thought were safe places here, and I fear I can't go back bc I will now avoid you. I can't trust you anymore. You've made me feel worthless

This is what you do when you sexualize someone who thought you respected them. I hope more of you take notice and stop being the icks you say you despise
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It makes me so sad to read that someone has done this to you.
Well done for speaking up and letting them know their behaviour isn’t acceptable.
Please do not feel anything but the incredible, caring, thoughtful person that you are. They are the worthless one, not you xx
 
Lil_wonders said:
It makes me so sad to read that someone has done this to you.
Well done for speaking up and letting them know their behaviour isn’t acceptable.
Please do not feel anything but the incredible, caring, thoughtful person that you are. They are the worthless one, not you xx
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This x2. But please don’t stay away from the people who care about you @Bailey94
 
Bailey94 said:
I'm tired of the excuses. You weren't "just joking" or "experiencing a moment of weakness." When you say you're a friend and you respect someone, you don't sexualize them. Plain and simple. You don't pretend to be some charming, friendly person and then DM someone you say you respect and reduce them to a means of getting off. I'm tired of it. Bc these types know they can get away with it by offering some bullshit apology or even acting remorseful. And I end up keeping it hush hush bc I feel like I've done something wrong. Well, I'm done with being nice. If you exhibit this kind of behavior, I will expose you publicly with malice. Bc in your "moment of weakness" you've thrown away what I thought was a safe place, and that can never be undone. And I will no longer protect you from public scorn for your predatory ways. Why should I try to save a friendship you thought so little of you'd reduce me to a vessel for your sexual pleasure, treated me with what amounts to contempt for me as a person and saw me only as a way to get your rocks off? You knew better and you didn't care. Therefore, I no longer care about what I thought was a friendship. You have in effect ruined what I thought were safe places here, and I fear I can't go back bc I will now avoid you. I can't trust you anymore. You've made me feel worthless

This is what you do when you sexualize someone who thought you respected them. I hope more of you take notice and stop being the icks you say you despise
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This recently happened to me in a pm. Ugh, I didn't respond, deleted the conversation. Good for you for speaking up
 
Bailey94 said:
I'm tired of the excuses. You weren't "just joking" or "experiencing a moment of weakness." When you say you're a friend and you respect someone, you don't sexualize them. Plain and simple. You don't pretend to be some charming, friendly person and then DM someone you say you respect and reduce them to a means of getting off. I'm tired of it. Bc these types know they can get away with it by offering some bullshit apology or even acting remorseful. And I end up keeping it hush hush bc I feel like I've done something wrong. Well, I'm done with being nice. If you exhibit this kind of behavior, I will expose you publicly with malice. Bc in your "moment of weakness" you've thrown away what I thought was a safe place, and that can never be undone. And I will no longer protect you from public scorn for your predatory ways. Why should I try to save a friendship you thought so little of you'd reduce me to a vessel for your sexual pleasure, treated me with what amounts to contempt for me as a person and saw me only as a way to get your rocks off? You knew better and you didn't care. Therefore, I no longer care about what I thought was a friendship. You have in effect ruined what I thought were safe places here, and I fear I can't go back bc I will now avoid you. I can't trust you anymore. You've made me feel worthless

This is what you do when you sexualize someone who thought you respected them. I hope more of you take notice and stop being the icks you say you despise
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I'm sorry to hear this Bailey :( Well said, hope those who need to listen, listen
And echoing what Lil and Amber said. There are still safe spaces here, use them as you need to
 
Bailey94 said:
I'm tired of the excuses. You weren't "just joking" or "experiencing a moment of weakness." When you say you're a friend and you respect someone, you don't sexualize them. Plain and simple. You don't pretend to be some charming, friendly person and then DM someone you say you respect and reduce them to a means of getting off. I'm tired of it. Bc these types know they can get away with it by offering some bullshit apology or even acting remorseful. And I end up keeping it hush hush bc I feel like I've done something wrong. Well, I'm done with being nice. If you exhibit this kind of behavior, I will expose you publicly with malice. Bc in your "moment of weakness" you've thrown away what I thought was a safe place, and that can never be undone. And I will no longer protect you from public scorn for your predatory ways. Why should I try to save a friendship you thought so little of you'd reduce me to a vessel for your sexual pleasure, treated me with what amounts to contempt for me as a person and saw me only as a way to get your rocks off? You knew better and you didn't care. Therefore, I no longer care about what I thought was a friendship. You have in effect ruined what I thought were safe places here, and I fear I can't go back bc I will now avoid you. I can't trust you anymore. You've made me feel worthless

This is what you do when you sexualize someone who thought you respected them. I hope more of you take notice and stop being the icks you say you despise
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Sorry to hear this.... loving the fact you spoke up.... you are an amazing person and a wonderful friend to many of us here.
 
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