I saw a sad, troubled young woman when you came back, I could see the best in you and that you had it in you to give it in spades to friends. Don’t bother about what others think of you on this site. Just look around some days and you’ll understand. I hope you and your girlfriend will make it work whether online or offline.
You are both vibrant beautiful women with a lifetime ahead for yourselves. Don’t give up. Both of you are polite and show compassion and commitment. In my world, the two of you sparkle and shine brightly.