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Self doubt is natural human trait. Explored ever since we could probably explore it. As social creatures, we want to have connections, but dont want to displease. We get excited with new things and ideas, but don't want the old to change to much unless we are ready. We are all very complicated and everyone has their own worth. Some can describe it, some can feel it, someone can own it, and some can be completely destroyed by it.
 
Lil_wonders said:
Sometimes this place makes me doubt myself. I see other people commenting and posting and think wow they have such a great outgoing personality. I wish I was more like that. I see other people’s photos and think I wish my body was more like that.
The thing is I know I have a good personality, I know the body I have is worth me loving it as it is.
It’s that self doubt that creeps in when I’m here.

Not sure where this thought is going. But it’s my thought.
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I know exactly what you’re feeling, my dear! I struggle with the same thoughts and feelings at times. I think you are great like you are! You’re gorgeous and have a great personality from what I’ve seen of you for the short time I’ve known you here. But that self doubt can definitely be difficult to overcome. Love yourself first! Then the rest after! 😘😊💋
 
I think im quite a positive person and like to look for the best rather than worst but sometimes things just align in a bad way and make me think what’s the fucking point ….i don’t mean top myself type what’s the point just that it’s all shit isn’t it and no positive type quotes or any of that bullshit will make any difference

Anyway the sun is shining and it’s nearly the weekend …blah blah lol


Oh on a side note …does anyone also quickly check they are in the right thread lol I just had to make sure this wasn’t what made you happy today hehe
 
Amelia24 said:
I think im quite a positive person and like to look for the best rather than worst but sometimes things just align in a bad way and make me think what’s the fucking point ….i don’t mean top myself type what’s the point just that it’s all shit isn’t it and no positive type quotes or any of that bullshit will make any difference

Anyway the sun is shining and it’s nearly the weekend …blah blah lol


Oh on a side note …does anyone also quickly check they are in the right thread lol I just had to make sure this wasn’t what made you happy today hehe
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Sounds like something made you happy, so stick to that.
 
I don't know what hate is.
I don't feel it, I don't understand it. I don't know how to hate people. I may feel disdain or find people's behaviors despicable. In other case I just feel pity for them.
I really don't need that word.

I don't love things. I appreciate their value, and I'm not talking about money here. I really like pizza! You could probably even say I need pizza 🫣. But it wouldn't come to my mind to say "I love" it. Nor the sound of rain on a window, sunshine or a nap for example. Love is something different. I am very careful to use it. At least I got to know what is is.
I really don't need that word anymore.
 
Slopps said:
I don't know what hate is.
I don't feel it, I don't understand it. I don't know how to hate people. I may feel disdain or find people's behaviors despicable. In other case I just feel pity for them.
I really don't need that word.

I don't love things. I appreciate their value, and I'm not talking about money here. I really like pizza! You could probably even say I need pizza 🫣. But it wouldn't come to my mind to say "I love" it. Nor the sound of rain on a window, sunshine or a nap for example. Love is something different. I am very careful to use it. At least I got to know what is is.
I really don't need that word anymore.
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Both are definitely words that cause a range of emotions! And they are both thrown around way too casually! I’m as guilty as anyone. It sounds like you’ve been hurt by them both. I’m sorry for you pain. Thanks for a different perspective…there some merit for all of us in your words! 🙂👍
 
LdyHntr said:
Both are definitely words that cause a range of emotions! And they are both thrown around way too casually! I’m as guilty as anyone. It sounds like you’ve been hurt by them both. I’m sorry for you pain. Thanks for a different perspective…there some merit for all of us in your words! 🙂👍
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No worries, I'm all good 😚
Also: no need to feel "guilty". There is a big cultural and educational aspect to what we say (or not). There isn't necessarily a right or wrong. We just shouldn't assume everyone speaks the same language. It's a big world even if the world wide web makes us feel differently sometimes.
 
When did it become ok for people to constantly post negativity, subjecting innocent bystanders that are trying to escape the toxicities of life.

There are plenty of mental health forums to post in and get real help. Pat's on the back, words of affirmation, hand holding, only give you a 3 second dopamine rush. Thats not help, its enabling.

For anyone waiting to jump on the bandwagon and say you can post whatever you want; yeah you sure can. But the same people wonder why not many others want to engage with them. Thats why. Now you know.
 
Slopps said:
No worries, I'm all good 😚
Also: no need to feel "guilty". There is a big cultural and educational aspect to what we say (or not). There isn't necessarily a right or wrong. We just shouldn't assume everyone speaks the same language. It's a big world even if the world wide web makes us feel differently sometimes.
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I kind of agree. But there is a right and wrong. But thats just my little opinion in this big world lol

Edit: also, great to see you back!
 
Harley31 said:
When did it become ok for people to constantly post negativity, subjecting innocent bystanders that are trying to escape the toxicities of life.

There are plenty of mental health forums to post in and get real help. Pat's on the back, words of affirmation, hand holding, only give you a 3 second dopamine rush. Thats not help, its enabling.

For anyone waiting to jump on the bandwagon and say you can post whatever you want; yeah you sure can. But the same people wonder why not many others want to engage with them. Thats why. Now you know.
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Sometime in late 2000's to early 2010's or so. That's the same shit Tr.ump & Friends operate on: "Me first, our club first, fuck everyone else. Deal with it."
 
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