Pros: look funny and cool at first
Cons: look kinda ridiculous after a while
Edit:
Pros: good to hang out with
Cons: can break when you actually need it to hold.
Cons: Has the potential, at the very least negatively affect and at the most, destroy someone with cruel words. As for cruel physical actions, they cause bodily harm.
Pros: eh, I guess it can get you allies
Cons: will sometimes make you seem dumb or naive, might get you only pain
I think kindness hasn't worked out for me so much