What are dominant traits? That is so foreign to use and makes no sense when it concerns actual bdsm. Bdsm is taught through a mentor and through experience, especially learning to be a dom. Anyone can become a dom. It's actually taking the time to learn what bdsm actually is, and it usually involves becoming a sub first. Some people realize being a dom is too much responsibility and wish to not do that. Or realize bdsm is not what they aren't actually interested in because actual bdsm and porn and media are two different things. There's no such thing as "dominant traits" nobody is "naturally dominant". I think that's actually bullshit that these macho doms want people to think because I think a lot of these people don't actually understand what bdsm is and never went through the proper channels to learn.