AwI don’t mind a bite..
Anyway.. it’s not that I lack confidence.. I just think if people don’t message me, they are also not waiting for me to message damn lol.. maybe it is a little insecurity after all.. plus I’m always scared to get attached to people and see them leave or whatever (this is both here and in real life, have lost too much)
Try not to assign too much weight to it tho. Just think of it as a friendly hello and nothing more. If something more happens, cool, but if not, you just put a little friendliness in their inbox and there's nothing wrong with that