Group Banter Race to a million

[Casey86]

Yeah, it does I just do it a lot I know it's the soul releasing pain I just hate that like I'm almost sad all the time

It could very well be the soul releasing pain and no one likes being sad all the time

 

[Cd_Kendra]

sorry had to step away for a few min, im back

Yeah, it does I just do it a lot I know it's the soul releasing pain I just hate that like I'm almost sad all the time

it sucks that you have to go through this pain

 

[highimstorm]

Cheers to having another beer lol

 

[Cd_Kendra]

Cheers to having another beer lol

you know what im running to the store thanks for the great idea

 

[highimstorm]

you know what im running to the store thanks for the great idea

Lol enjoy!

 

[Casey86]

I think it's my soul finally letting all the pain out & true but the worst part I find nobody wants to be around someone sad all the time

I get it, I feel the same way when I'm sad but people who care about you will always want to be around you

 

[highimstorm]

I get it, I feel the same way when I'm sad but people who care about you will always want to be around you

I think people will understand and be there but then not everyone will stay around when someone doesn't listen to the advice they are given and just continue to ignore it and dig a deeper hole. I had friends who wanted help but never got any and just ignored whatever I would tell them and continue to be sad and unfortunately it began to affect my mental health and that's why I try to help when I can but when it becomes a challenge and it's hurting me too then I know I gotta walk away.

 

[Cd_Kendra]

im back again. i said a temporary bye to a blond american friend to i picked up a blond american beer

 

[Casey86]

I think people will understand and be there but then not everyone will stay around when someone doesn't listen to the advice they are given and just continue to ignore it and dig a deeper hole. I had friends who wanted help but never got any and just ignored whatever I would tell them and continue to be sad and unfortunately it began to affect my mental health and that's why I try to help when I can but when it becomes a challenge and it's hurting me too then I know I gotta walk away.

I totally understand and get this too. You hate to see friends and loved ones sad and suffering. You try to be there for them as much as possible. It definitely becomes a challenge and a losing battle when the refuse to listen to you or accept your help. It definitely takes a toll on your mental heath. As much as it hurts to see them suffering and not wanting to get better, you have to sadly walk away

 

[Casey86]

That's really kind of you to say & I'm sorry

there's no need to apologize

 

[Cd_Kendra]

defiantly a night for beer

 

[highimstorm]

I totally understand and get this too. You hate to see friends and loved ones sad and suffering. You try to be there for them as much as possible. It definitely becomes a challenge and a losing battle when the refuse to listen to you or accept your help. It definitely takes a toll on your mental heath. As much as it hurts to see them suffering and not wanting to get better, you have to sadly walk away

Yep but only at times and when people just want to stay a victim and want to be negative all the time that's when it gets too much because you try to do whatever you can and it feels like you can't do anything to help and you're talking to a wall so you just can't do it anymore.

 

[Cd_Kendra]

Yep but only at times and when people just want to stay a victim and want to be negative all the time that's when it gets too much because you try to do whatever you can and it feels like you can't do anything to help and you're talking to a wall so you just can't do it anymore.

i have been on both sides of that wall before. luckily i did end getting the help i needed at the time.

 

[Casey86]

Yep but only at times and when people just want to stay a victim and want to be negative all the time that's when it gets too much because you try to do whatever you can and it feels like you can't do anything to help and you're talking to a wall so you just can't do it anymore.

Yup you always want to do what you can to try and help them out. People unfortunately want to play the victim or have people feel sorry for them all the time. There's only so much you can do before you reach that breaking point with them

 

[Cd_Kendra]

I use to drink beer haven't in like I think two years

i only drink beer when im not feeling too... chipper?

 

[Casey86]

Thanks dude you've truly become a best friend plus you actually know half the bands I listen too haha

Anytime Serenity and I do have some good taste in music lol

 

[Cd_Kendra]

Anytime Serenity and I do have some good taste in music lol

agreed

 

[Casey86]

Same to you Casey & you have pretty wicked music taste & like that story about meeting the singer of Decapiated totally wild

Haha it's a fun story to tell

 

[highimstorm]

Have a goodnight everyone

 

[Cd_Kendra]

actually have rob in the background right now