Group Banter Race to a million
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This is EXACTLY what a toxic clique looks like. Zero accountability, everyone pats each others' backs and encourages disparagement across the community via reaction validations. And now, just as with any toxic clique, it's unraveling. Predictable. Seen this countless times.
As you should. I'm going to keep my mouth shut too.
How is me asking if that was necessary toxic?
He hurt your feelings so you can bask in his pain now?
A person in your position should be above this.
This has nothing to do with the Nazi content. You are using the opportunity to punch down.
He hurt your feelings so you can bask in his pain now?
A person in your position should be above this.
This has nothing to do with the Nazi content. You are using the opportunity to punch down.
He was disparaging me and others countless times and has zero self-awareness in this regard—and now it's backfiring. I don't think you've been here long enough to realize what's happening here, unless you've reinvented yourself as a new user.
I'm a fucking human, not a goddamned machine. And I've been staying mostly quiet for a long time. Don't shit on anybody who can shit bigger shits on you.
This stems from a report and the report exposes the vibe of the clique, that's be problematically spilling over into other community threads. The spectrum of reality here at FCN is far wider than you perceive it to be.
No I haven’t been here long enough
I’m sorry your feelings got hurt
I’m sorry your feelings got hurt
Ok you know what Stan? Screw it
It was a bad situation, the joke shouldn’t have been made, and people got hurt. You don’t know everything that’s been said behind the scenes so how can you categorically say there’s no accountability? It’s people sticking by their friends when things go wrong and recognizing that people are humans and make mistakes, not a toxic clique sweeping things under a rug
It’s telling that your first comment on the subject (4 days later) was to make it about yourself
Moderate, yes. Inform people when they’ve broken the rules, yes. But you’re making it personal. You find every opportunity to lecture people in this thread when you yourself are always barging into conversations, putting people down and stating your opinions as fact, telling people their favorite foods are junk and lecturing diabetics to listen to you instead of their doctor and telling people to use AI to diagnose mental health
It’s absolute bullshit the way you treat people
I just don’t want to conflate the two matters
Your reply to him might make you feel better but certainly isn’t going to help things. And now it gives fuel for this type of activity to continue
Your reply to him might make you feel better but certainly isn’t going to help things. And now it gives fuel for this type of activity to continue
Don't ever state that you're sorry for another human's feelings. That's condescension. Gaslighting. It's far beyond anybody's feelings.
Thanks for confirming what I just said
Fuel for that type of activity is the encouragement and validation of other clique members.
And you punching down, since you have all the power in this scenario
I have empathy for others. I’m not going to feel bad about that
It’s not gaslighting
It’s not gaslighting
This is my fault. I'm sorry. I made a dumb joke, just trying to be silly with Ciaran. I was trying to do an impression of a "condescending Redditor" jumping to conclusions. Maybe a funny thing to do but not in this context. I apologize for the grief I've caused so many people with this particular situation.
I'm working with observable facts, which I pointed out. Correctness is based on facts, not invented bullshit. I haven't fabricated one thing. Do accept reality and accountability.
Power is irrelevant. I'm citing public-facing facts and events which I haven't manufactured. What are you even saying?
