Sexy or Creepy??

MrCareful

MrCareful

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blokes don’t really know how to hit on women in chat rooms - mainly because they think they’re being sexy when in fact they are being creepy - well, that’s my theory anyway. So here’s a chance for Blokes to ask ‘is this sexy... or creepy’ ladies you can let us know!
 
Not being a person who ever resorts to name calling, (I may think it, but never say/type it).
My common responses are typically along the lines of..

I haven't any pics (unless you are into hunky semi-clad firemen) *sends a sample pic* I have a folder full of those.

The only thing I am interested in seeing displayed is a charming personality.

Try looking on google. You obviously have no interest in knowing the person: why does it matter if 'Google'?

Etc...

One can still be polite to someone regardless of what their interests are. Try adding some wit/logic/sarcasm to responses rather than 'name-calling'.
Social skills are developed by socialising. People aren't born witty or charming or interesting. Those skills are learned over time, just as a school student learns, by being present and paying attention. Some go on to 'graduate with honours' while others end up as 'drop-outs'.

Ls x
 
Lakeside said:
Not being a person who ever resorts to name calling, (I may think it, but never say/type it).
My common responses are typically along the lines of..

I haven't any pics (unless you are into hunky semi-clad firemen) *sends a sample pic* I have a folder full of those.

The only thing I am interested in seeing displayed is a charming personality.

Try looking on google. You obviously have no interest in knowing the person: why does it matter if 'Google'?

Etc...

One can still be polite to someone regardless of what their interests are. Try adding some wit/logic/sarcasm to responses rather than 'name-calling'.
Social skills are developed by socialising. People aren't born witty or charming or interesting. Those skills are learned over time, just as a school student learns, by being present and paying attention. Some go on to 'graduate with honours' while others end up as 'drop-outs'.

Ls x
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I think sometimes people try too hard to get a reaction, because they need to stand out. It’s often not their usual approach in ‘real life’! I’m pretty new to this site and trying to make some connections, but the usual ‘Hi....’ are pretty much universally ignored.
I continue in though!
 
What about, "Hey, I'm into alternative fetishes. Are you?" While being upfront with that this isn't gong to be your "meat and potatoes" sexual (or otherwise) interest, it's not immediately weirding out anyone who may be against it and perhaps an interest could be peaked by a short discussion beforehand.

Let's face it, going for the feet from the get go isn't a widespread interest.
 
Stanthropical said:
What about, "Hey, I'm into alternative fetishes. Are you?" While being upfront with that this isn't gong to be your "meat and potatoes" sexual (or otherwise) interest, it's not immediately weirding out anyone who may be against it and perhaps an interest could be peaked by a short discussion beforehand.

Let's face it, going for the feet from the get go isn't a widespread interest.
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My mind would go to something way worse than feet! And then I’d be super creeped out. There’s some shady shit out there.

To be honest, when I’d go in a chat room, there would be dozens of hits within 2 minutes. The first one that had something polite and non-aggressive as a starter with good grammar and spelling was what I’d start with.
 
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