Signals

So main reason I started this thread was because of a co-worker of mine. I might be reading too much into this but it always bugged me:

So there is this female co-worker. She is definitely a cutie, sweet and quite fun to talk to talk with. I have noticed that, any time she enters the break room, she will come around my side and lightly touch the back of my shoulder . Sometimes when we are out on the floor, she will grab my hand, and sometimes even giving me a full frontal, slow hug, almost seems romantic like in a way. I am not sure if she giving me signals or if I am just reading too much into it.

In other words, you girls are complicated :p
 
I’m not available, so I don’t technically send any signals. But if I’m going to flirt, it’ll be through more connected eye contact....you know what I mean, the kind that’s hard to pull your eyes away from. I smile more, stand a bit closer than usual, maybe touch his arm or leg. And....attempt to discreetly give views that he may appreciate :P
 
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Mikey86 said:
So main reason I started this thread was because of a co-worker of mine. I might be reading too much into this but it always bugged me:

So there is this female co-worker. She is definitely a cutie, sweet and quite fun to talk to talk with. I have noticed that, any time she enters the break room, she will come around my side and lightly touch the back of my shoulder . Sometimes when we are out on the floor, she will grab my hand, and sometimes even giving me a full frontal, slow hug, almost seems romantic like in a way. I am not sure if she giving me signals or if I am just reading too much into it.

In other words, you girls are complicated :p
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You got that right. Only sure fire way to find out is ask...
 
Mikey86 said:
So main reason I started this thread was because of a co-worker of mine. I might be reading too much into this but it always bugged me:

So there is this female co-worker. She is definitely a cutie, sweet and quite fun to talk to talk with. I have noticed that, any time she enters the break room, she will come around my side and lightly touch the back of my shoulder . Sometimes when we are out on the floor, she will grab my hand, and sometimes even giving me a full frontal, slow hug, almost seems romantic like in a way. I am not sure if she giving me signals or if I am just reading too much into it.

In other words, you girls are complicated :p
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Does she hug anyone else? It seems like she’s giving you signals but some women are natural huggers. Without knowing either of you or your work environment, I would lean towards it being a signal. But I could be totally wrong. So, yeah, complicated.
 
If you're "giving signals," you're looking to be approached.

Or you can make an approach yourself. The sooner you get rejected, the sooner you can move on and stop wasting everybody's time (including yours).
 
I tend to be very transparent lol i hit on my man first with subtle hints and told him exactly what i wanted lol he was receptive so it went well but it sounds like she wants you to ask her out to me good luck
 
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