Something i've been wondering a lot.

[Papitoeveryyyyone]

I've questioned a lot of people but never have done research on this, that, who has more control over his or urge to have sex, men or women? I've seen people who can't spend a day without having sex and those who don't want it for months or even years. Other than that, i wonder who is biologically or psychologically more active when it comes to romance or sex, men or women?

 

[Lakeside]

I don't think you have much control over the urge.
The control part comes from selecting someone to share the act with. It's been almost a year for me; temptation has been avoiding me.

Ls x

 

[Papitoeveryyyyone]

I don't think you have much control over the urge.
The control part comes from selecting someone to share the act with. It's been almost a year for me; temptation has been avoiding me.

Ls x

You're right, i don't have much control over it but i've developed control over it with time. First time i had sex was when i was 13, with a 30+ woman. She technically used to rape me, saying we were playing a game. I later had to get over sex addiction. Being 22 rn, i've had sex with women i can't even count but since the last 1 and half year, i've done nothing. I have a strong urge to do it every now and then but i'd wait til i get married now rather have it with some girl who doesn't know shit about herself or me.

 

[Lakeside]

Marriage... *shudders* Noun: Meaning: An incredibly long and slow death by matrimony..



Ls x

 

[Papitoeveryyyyone]

Marriage... *shudders* Noun: Meaning: An incredibly long and slow death by matrimony..



Ls x

That put a huge smile on my face. Idk if it's because i think you're right or that you're wrong when you say that about marriage, guess i'll have to figure out myself some day.
If i fuck up, i'd def consider coming and ask for some advice from you lol

 

[Lakeside]

That put a huge smile on my face. Idk if it's because i think you're right or that you're wrong when you say that about marriage, guess i'll have to figure out myself some day.
If i fuck up, i'd def consider coming and ask for some advice from you lol

I can give my advice right now..

Stay Single.

Ls x

 

[Papitoeveryyyyone]

I can give my advice right now..

Stay Single.

Ls x

I too have considered that option but i've never really found a good logic behind that. What in your opinion is the reason or some reasons because of which a person should stay single?

 

[Thalassa]

There is an "Ask a woman" thread
https://www.freechatnow.com/forum/threads/ask-a-woman-restart.24054/

And an "Ask a Man" thread
https://www.freechatnow.com/forum/threads/ask-a-man.24113/

I'd recommend posting your questions there.

 

[LillyK]

I don't think gender is the biggest factor. It's a combination of age & gender (Men generally peak in their 20s and women in their 30s), biological factors and environmental factors. It's much more complex than we could answer in a single post

 

[Papitoeveryyyyone]

Thank you for you recommendations @Thalassa
You're very right @LillyK99 the answer indeed is pretty complex, thank you for sharing your thoughts tho

 

[Papitoeveryyyyone]

How often is “a lot”, do you think about this weekly, daily, hourly?

Whenever i talk about sex with somebody or about the relationships between men and women, a lot of other topics and this comes in then, it's not daily, weekly or hourly but yes i do think of it a lot, ask a lot of people about it but i haven't received a logical answer for it yet.