Definitely a Domme by identity and personality.
In application with play/partnership, a balance of trust and shared power - a Switch.
Knowing/ Learning/ Loving each other on a deeper level, one beyond the physical realm. Without that, personally reluctant to these affairs.
Being able to relinquish responsibility within a safe space is truly intoxicating.
Trusting self, and your partner.
Practicing limits, and growing both individually and as lovers/equals.
Soul recognizing soul, marination of needs and thoughts on primal level.
As well all that comes with that equation.