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I'm all for this thread. I truly believe that being sexy is not about what people tell you and more about what you believe yourself to be. Granted the outside verification in the form of likes and comments helps reinforce or diminish that internal perception, and it can be difficult to change ones own view of oneself.

I may not be super fit, shaved, oiled, soft,or hard, but I'm me and damn sexy. As is everyone here in my mind.

You're pretty fucking awesome Cali, keep up the good work, and stay sexy!
 
@LilithX's post about courage led me to take this photo.

The idea of courage is to leap out of your comfort zone. Be a little uncomfortable, but unwavering in the face of insecurity, of which I have been feeling a lot of lately.

When you're told something about yourself enough, you start to believe it, even if it isn't directed at you. That internalization built up over half of your life can get difficult to break.

I kind of figured this thread would get no traction because there's no countdown or witty title...and it basically has just been me...and that's okay. I said I'd keep posting until others feel open enough to do so myself. I just never thought I could use it for myself in the same way.

This photo is a result of me stopping for a moment and realizing my worth and possible contributions to things. It's a result of me getting out of my own head and saying fuck it..which in all honesty I might regret later :p.

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UnsaintedCali said:
Appreciate ya.
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Ok a little expansion....you never stop amazing me, your humor, your compassion, and your willingness to be courageous. None of us are perfect, but your ability, and courage to express how you feel so eloquently, I find to be astounding. You're not alone in your thoughts and being able to relate to the words when I read them makes me jealous of you.

I have nothing but admiration and joy when I see your posts.

I'll marry you if I see you on the proposal thread...I don't know how yet, but I'll figure it out.
 
UnsaintedCali said:
@LilithX's post about courage led me to take this photo.

The idea of courage is to leap out of your comfort zone. Be a little uncomfortable, but unwavering in the face of insecurity, of which I have been feeling a lot of lately.

When you're told something about yourself enough, you start to believe it, even if it isn't directed at you. That internalization built up over half of your life can get difficult to break.

I kind of figured this thread would get no traction because there's no countdown or witty title...and it basically has just been me...and that's okay. I said I'd keep posting until others feel open enough to do so myself. I just never thought I could use it for myself in the same way.

This photo is a result of me stopping for a moment and realizing my worth and possible contributions to things. It's a result of me getting out of my own head and saying fuck it..which in all honesty I might regret later :p.

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Nothin but love for ya ❤️ :)

Oh, also a quick **TITTY TWISTER**
 
Someguy1323 said:
Ok a little expansion....you never stop amazing me, your humor, your compassion, and your willingness to be courageous. None of us are perfect, but your ability, and courage to express how you feel so eloquently, I find to be astounding. You're not alone in your thoughts and being able to relate to the words when I read them makes me jealous of you.

I have nothing but admiration and joy when I see your posts.

I'll marry you if I see you on the proposal thread...I don't know how yet, but I'll figure it out.
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Wow, thank you. That was really kind.

I doubt I'll be in the proposal thread anymore, FCN is a hurt locker sometimes :D
 
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