Thoughts Things that annoy me ...

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LilithX said:
Do you ever eat a sandwich (usually a toasted sub or club or something) and the bread leaves scratches on the roof of your mouth? Bread! Or is that just me? So annoying.
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I had a sandwich like that today and that happened to me. Lol

Old ladies who take forever in line at the bank annoy me. Not saying that because I had that experience today.

Oh, and a boyfriend who's making me wait for a month for sex.
 
VintageVixen said:
I went back and forth on this, do I really want to say this? And in the end, I'm going to.. I've lived long enough censoring myself on this because I never want to hurt anyone, though really it's me who is getting hurt because I'm not putting myself first. I am now though.

What annoys me..

People who can't see beyond themselves to know how they are damaging other people. Sometimes this place really gets to me, and I shouldn't let it. I've seen people ridicule and debase other users, for what? The ignore block feature is here for a reason. Don't like someone and what they post, ignore them. We're fucking adults. High school was over for me 20 years ago. Sarcasm and sass when overused is not amusing. As well as posting passive aggressive statues poking at people. It's toxic and negative, and I'm done with letting negativity have so much sway over me.

I've let myself be used on this site for years. I've never caused a public scene about any of it. It's taken me those years to realize that I'm worth more than what I've let go on for so long. Love doesn't equal to living as someone's secret, and it certainly isn't cheating. I've had to make some changes so that I can continue to remember my worth. Because in the end I choose to be happy, and that happiness relies on me to make the tough choices of what is acceptable in my life.
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You are a moderator in what is, certainly, the devil's playground. Not meaning just this site, but the internet. I have always thought it funny that, when driving, people get road rage at cars. Not at people really. Cars. There is a disconnect between you and people. A man did not step in front of you, a jeep cut you off. By the time you make contact with the person, if you ever do, you are outraged. Because by then you have been angry at a vehicle and had no place to channel that anger. Lack of connection with real people is empty and can even be dangerous.

Here, we call it internet courage. People who do not have good connections in their life not only live out fantasy here, but they do not see others as humans. You are an object to them. We all know what "objectifying women" is all about in general. But on here it is way worse because any crazy can log in and it is like Forrest Gump, "You never know what you're gonna get."

I know what you are saying when you say, "We are all adults here," but the truth is that this is not the case. There are little boys in men's bodies and little girls in women's bodies in some cases. Mental illness and lack of emotional intelligence are real issues for all of society, and a site like this attracts all kinds. Because it feeds something they cannot get otherwise, connection.

I had an uncle who was homeless because he could not handle connection. Connection means being responsible for your behavior with others. He would rather live alone on the streets than be around others where he would have to interact in acceptable ways. That is mental illness.

I flirt here and like certain people a lot. There are nice people here. I find you just have to cling to those and not let people in your circle until you know them well enough to feel they are not a creeper.

I feel for you. It is like the nurse or doctor who loses people or the police dealing with trouble all of the time. You tend to see the worst and it can wear on you. Thank you for what you do and hope your holiday is good! :)
 
JudithJ1337 said:
I had a sandwich like that today and that happened to me. Lol

Old ladies who take forever in line at the bank annoy me. Not saying that because I had that experience today.

Oh, and a boyfriend who's making me wait for a month for sex.
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Omg.... I mean, I've gone like 18 months single once but damn. I started going crazy when I was married if we went 2 weeks. It was time for one of those I'm gonna be a bitch rn talks :eek::D
 
Dogowar said:
Thinking she was ok, but then hearing the lies she spread.
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If your referring to me! Id like to hear these lies im supposedly saying? I stayed out of it long enough and watched you try to make me look like a shitty person and you look like the victim. If you want make this public lets make it fucking public!!

I have sat back and let you carry on with your ways quietly, when you are the one who keeps lookin like the fucking victim. Even thou I know what you did after you broke my heart! So fuck off and quit playin the heartbroken victim
 
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