I went back and forth on this, do I really want to say this? And in the end, I'm going to.. I've lived long enough censoring myself on this because I never want to hurt anyone, though really it's me who is getting hurt because I'm not putting myself first. I am now though.
What annoys me..
People who can't see beyond themselves to know how they are damaging other people. Sometimes this place really gets to me, and I shouldn't let it. I've seen people ridicule and debase other users, for what? The ignore block feature is here for a reason. Don't like someone and what they post, ignore them. We're fucking adults. High school was over for me 20 years ago. Sarcasm and sass when overused is not amusing. As well as posting passive aggressive statues poking at people. It's toxic and negative, and I'm done with letting negativity have so much sway over me.
I've let myself be used on this site for years. I've never caused a public scene about any of it. It's taken me those years to realize that I'm worth more than what I've let go on for so long. Love doesn't equal to living as someone's secret, and it certainly isn't cheating. I've had to make some changes so that I can continue to remember my worth. Because in the end I choose to be happy, and that happiness relies on me to make the tough choices of what is acceptable in my life.