Banter What do you need?

RoccoDesantis719 said:
Not to be played

A good ass woman



Love
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What is a "good ass woman," when taking yourself into account and what she might have to deal with when thinking about yourself, including what's fair to her? Just curious.

Both men and women talk about about needing a "good" partner, but never explain what that is.
 
Someone who don't play games play with someone's heart someone who tells it like it is and what it is what they want or need
 
Good luck. You just have to aim realistically, be upfront about all of your societally perceived shortcomings, issues and good qualities, then you gotta outcompete 80% of other men (especially on internet).
 
Stanthropical said:
Good luck. You just have to aim realistically, be upfront about all of your societally perceived shortcomings, issues and good qualities, then you gotta outcompete 80% of other men (especially on internet).
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I hear what your saying but I'm old enough to know what I want and I am upfront about who and what I want and will not compete for anything when it comes to love is not a game nor is it a competition
 
It's a competition from an evolutionary standpoint, because there's always someone with better offers. To some with unrivaled advantages on their level, it can be a game.
 
To have a good short-term incentive to be in really good shape. I need to find a good over 50 league for a sport I like or perhaps a real life partner
 
Stanthropical said:
It's a competition from an evolutionary standpoint, because there's always someone with better offers. To some with unrivaled advantages on their level, it can be a game.
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I agree! It describes what dating is, especially these days when most people are meeting online. I would have worded it a little didifferently, I'm not looking for a better offer, I'm looking for someone I connect with on more than just surface level.
It's a lot easier for people to play the game online, starting a relationship with multiple women at the same time. Rather than getting to know them all and picking one, they just keep them all in a rotation. It's not specific to men but it seems to be the majority.
 
HellinHeels said:
I agree! It describes what dating is, especially these days when most people are meeting online. I would have worded it a little didifferently, I'm not looking for a better offer, I'm looking for someone I connect with on more than just surface level.
It's a lot easier for people to play the game online, starting a relationship with multiple women at the same time. Rather than getting to know them all and picking one, they just keep them all in a rotation. It's not specific to men but it seems to be the majority.
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HellinHeels said:
I need transparency
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I couldn't have worded it better myself. Very well said. Some just aren't monogamous, which is fine to each their own (everyone has different preferences). I respect their choices but be clear address that to the ones you are intimate/or involved with... the lack of transparency bothers me. Let the other party (-ies) make an informed choice if they want to be a part of that equation whichever it may be in that particular scenario.

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I need honesty.
 
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