Thoughts What is love to you...

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love is being yourself and not getting judged by your partner
love is letting your partner going out and not nagging where they have and what have they been doing
love is just hanging out and being happy
 
Love is not having to say you are sorry. Love is an altered emotional state of mind that’s genetically hard wired to be attracted to the opposite sex,to have offspring. Love for a child is the willingness to die instead of/for them
 
Love is not having to say you are sorry. Love is an altered emotional state of mind that’s genetically hard wired to be attracted to the opposite sex,to have offspring. Love for a child is the willingness to die instead of/for them
or being man enough to say sorry :P
 
Roaming around here in FCN often make me thinks about this question ... and often make me asked serious question to myself and make me look in the mirror at my own character ... so what is love to you/me.

What is love this is what I know about love

Love is contagious if only all of us even me can just fully realize it just think of the impact it will have on humanity....

We all long for love not just the love of a partner, but the love of acceptance, the love of be and let be, the love that don't judge.

The love that say I don't agree but I will allow you the space to be you to learn to discover to make mistakes.

The love that embrace you no matter of how you look, no matter of what your status in life is, no matter if you are poor or rich, no matter how you look, the love that say we are all into this life together.

Not even me fully realize the impact of love but I do know that from self love to love for the person next to you can make a difference.

I often asked myself does that mean I have to be friends with all,does it mean I have to try and heal everybody .... I dont know all I know is love is the answer to everything in this world that is wrong.
 
I think we all have different definitions of love and we have all been dealing at one time with love that is not sincere. We have all been hurt or hurt in the name of love and many have been abused in the name of love. So I can understand that some people are skeptical about love. There are also different forms of love we do not love everything and everyone in the same way. Then there are those who have never really experienced love and also never really learned about love and that is sad. I only know my experience of love and i dont just talk about romantical love in a relationship.

Accpeting difference in people is love
Helping a stranger is love ...

For me the root of love is in kindness if you can show kindness you know about love in someway.
 
Kindness, patience, selflessness, understanding, and forgiveness are manifestations of love. Love is a smile, a wave, a kind comment, and a compliment. Love is sacrifice, service, and selflessness. Usually our love will be shown in our day-to-day interactions with people; a key factor will be our ability to recognize someone’s need and then respond to it. If we could look into each other’s hearts and understand the unique challenges each of us faces, I think we would treat each other much more gently, with more love, patience, tolerance, and care.

There is one virtue -- one quality that can solve all the world’s ills, cure all the hatred, and mend every wound: If we only learned to love our fellowman as our brothers and sisters, this would give us compassion. Will compassion for others bring light into the darkness? Will it allow us to part the clouds and see clearly? Yes, for though we are all born blind, through the light of love we can see past darkness and illusion and understand things as they really are.

The secret is to love everyone you meet. From the moment you meet them. Give everyone the benefit of the doubt. Start from the position that they are good. Most people will respond and it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, and you can then achieve the most wonderful things. But get rid of any of the jerks that let you down. Keep smiling and giving to people and you will be rewarded.

One thing I have learned is that there are different degrees of love, ranging from the love of mankind, your community, or people you give service to, all the way up to the love you have for your one and only, the person you are in a committed relationship with, and many different degrees in between. The same can be said for friendship, and friends can move from one degree to another at different times.

Love means putting someone else's happiness before your own, the degree to which you do that, of course, depends on where that person falls on the spectrum noted above. For love of community we may sacrifice some of our self-interest for the good of the whole (this has been called 'Civic Virtue"). The greater the degree of love we have for someone, the greater the importance of their happiness should be to us. If we truly love someone it should lead us to modify our behavior toward them, we would try harder not to cause them pain.
 

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