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How's this for trust. Met a shop keeper in Iraq he panicked when he short changed me and ran from the shop to rectify his mistake. I hadn't noticed and thought what a honest trustworthy man.
3 days later he was involved in my worst day ever and had a ak47 pointed at my head pulling on a defective trigger.

I support his family and currently putting his children through uni in turkey. I forgave him. I begged for forgiveness from his family but was told I need not ask
 
Kris1973 said:
How's this for trust. Met a shop keeper in Iraq he panicked when he short changed me and ran from the shop to rectify his mistake. I hadn't noticed and thought what a honest trustworthy man.
3 days later he was involved in my worst day ever and had a ak47 pointed at my head pulling on a defective trigger.

I support his family and currently putting his children through uni in turkey. I forgave him. I begged for forgiveness from his family but was told I need not ask
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Ya got gibbed mate plane and simple, we move on a little wiser.
 
It was a while ago and still affects me but my life is more important and I overcome it. I've left out alot but it's example of what you don't expect to happen. Happens whether for a reason or by chance, if you walk away it's in the past you don't need to look back.
Shit this is getting deep, think he's run away.
 
Kris1973 said:
It was a while ago and still affects me but my life is more important and I overcome it. I've left out alot but it's example of what you don't expect to happen. Happens whether for a reason or by chance, if you walk away it's in the past you don't need to look back.
Shit this is getting deep, think he's run away.
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Nothing is just random change, always forward the past has gone,

A pre occupation with th past, is the denial of the present
 
Don’t retai the bad, as you know not to you’ll rot and fall from the tree of life
 
Kris1973 said:
Trust can be regained over time if they are worth it. life if to short to distrust everyone because of a few.
Join in the threads, post jokes. It doesn't take long to get to know us all and best advise is " don't take it seriously"
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MZES said:
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That's the conundrum. It's difficult to open up after being hurt. Finding an honest and loving person can be healing, but it's difficult to find such a person if you don't open up and have something to offer that special person. My life was turned upside down over the past few years and I know it's not easy.

There are some wonderful people here but this is the internet. My advice is to be open but careful. Take things slowly. There is no hurry. But at the same time try to let go of bitterness enough so that, should you cross paths with someone who is wonderful, you can receive friendship and be a good friend yourself.

I wish you the best!
 
Dirkgently43 said:
That's the conundrum. It's difficult to open up after being hurt. Finding an honest and loving person can be healing, but it's difficult to find such a person if you don't open up and have something to offer that special person. My life was turned upside down over the past few years and I know it's not easy.

There are some wonderful people here but this is the internet. My advice is to be open but careful. Take things slowly. There is no hurry. But at the same time try to let go of bitterness enough so that, should you cross paths with someone who is wonderful, you can receive friendship and be a good friend yourself.

I wish you the best!
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Sadly I cannot offer anything at first now
Someone needs to make me trust her then I will allow her to see...

But knowing society I decided to leave the market and stop hoping completely
 
MZES said:
Sadly I cannot offer anything at first now
Someone needs to make me trust her then I will allow her to see...

But knowing society I decided to leave the market and stop hoping completely
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Well, definitely take it slowly. There's no need to put yourself in a position where you can get hurt before you feel comfortable with someone.
 
'New' is based on how many posts you have made on the forum. I think you stop being a 'new member' after you make 500 posts. :)
I know you from chat and a few years ago before there even was a forum. :)

Lakeside x
 
Lakeside said:
'New' is based on how many posts you have made on the forum. I think you stop being a 'new member' after you make 500 posts. :)
I know you from chat and a few years ago before there even was a forum.

Lakeside x
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Of course cuz you are one of the two people that really talk to me....
For that thanks even it did not progress well
 
I can see why he put a gun to your head, is there anything else you talk about or just this morbid tale?
 
Billy_B said:
I can see why he put a gun to your head, is there anything else you talk about or just this morbid tale?
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If you ask I tell
You do not ask I do not tell...simple as that

I talk when needed and quiet most of the time analysing things and making patterns
 
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