I was drafted, was a member on the site before it turned into a sex site. Back then it was simply a regular chat site, nothing special. When it became a sex site i had to remake my account as the software changed too.
I had no idea what this site was to be about. I was shocked at a lot of what I saw, and still see. smh
But, I stay because of the friends I had, and the ones I've made since the site change.
Also, no I don't expect to find the man for me here. but, a part of me refuses to give up on the idea. So, wtf never hurts to try. Even if some try to discourage you. I think many here would be so unhappy if i did find a good man for me here. Because then they would have to look inward to find out why they couldn't find some one themselves. Just my opinion.
Share your thoughts on why you're here. The curious want to know! lol


I had no idea what this site was to be about. I was shocked at a lot of what I saw, and still see. smh
But, I stay because of the friends I had, and the ones I've made since the site change.
Also, no I don't expect to find the man for me here. but, a part of me refuses to give up on the idea. So, wtf never hurts to try. Even if some try to discourage you. I think many here would be so unhappy if i did find a good man for me here. Because then they would have to look inward to find out why they couldn't find some one themselves. Just my opinion.
Share your thoughts on why you're here. The curious want to know! lol
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