Why Are You Here?

Falcon33

Falcon33

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Thought this might be a thoughtful thread. I’ll go first & feel free to post why you come back.

I’m married. I feel guilty every time I come here. But I usually come back when I feel ignored by my wife or like last night when she said, “I don’t like you.” Even though I know she was just in the heat of the moment, stuff like that doesn’t just come out of a person’s mouth by accident.

Lately I’ve been in the sex chat/porn share page & have found some women that want to chat. Then I feel guilty again. So that’s my reason I come here. What’s yours?
 
I was banned from chat room for violation of some sort. I'm attempting to discover why by exploring forums.
 
I come to the forums for the word games, to get to know people snippets at a time, post some thoughts and poetry. To generally have a good time in a manner where I can take time to think.

Go to chat to maintain friendships and make new ones. There's more of a chance to converse with different people there, even if most of it is simply telling them "I'm not here for that type of conversation" :)
 
I found FCN to find connections. I have a love/hate relationship with my boyfriend, i can't hide that now.
I have friends who are drifting away either by location or we are just growing apart, because we now know who we are, or we are finding other friends more on our wavelength.

I have hermit tendencies and i'm quite shy in real life, so online is a lot easier for me.

I very much enjoy the threads, i have a very varied assortment I'm watching, and joining in on. I like my 'homepage' as i can be a lot more open with what i can write, unlike another social media site that i'm on.

I also get to chat to people from all over the world, making friends with people i would never have known exsisted.

So that's why i keep coming back.
 
I started to come on FCN chat part when I was single, just to kill time sometimes. As time pass by, I started to talk few times with same person and then after long time, decide to create account to keep contact easier with these nice people. Once done, i discover the Forums and started to had fun on it. All this is just for entertainment and fun.

With time, things changed. Now I'm not single anymore so I come here less often. Like @Falcon33 , I start to feel guilty a little since I'm in relationship now, but I still enjoy the company of great people on here sometimes and still having some entertainment from Forum game and chat once in while.
 
I came here (to chat) when I was feeling lonely ... eventually I found forums and have met lots of amazing people who brighten every day for me.
I’m married but don’t feel guilty about being here.
This place and the people here have helped me remember who I am.
 
Married to my wife, my parents and my work. Kind of do everything for everyone and no grumbles about that just my nature to be dutiful I guess. Most of my friends have drifted off to pastures new for work or relationships so I tend to see them infrequently and whilst I have strong connections with them I am terrible at staying in touch in between seeing each other. Since I have started the "real" life, I've definitely gone back into my natural more introverted self so generally don't seek to meet new people rather treasure my alone time more to reflect, recuperate and generally potter about here posting and playing some of the word games, maybe looking to chat a bit from time to time like I used to before disappearing.
 
I wanted to see how chat rooms were since it had been forever since I was ever on one. I decided to stay and make some friends and I really enjoy the forums. Wasn't really looking for anything just bored and wanted something to do. Made some good friends so that's the reason I stick around.
 
I’m quiet and awkward irl and have a hard time talking and connecting with people. It’s easier to do over text for me, a lot easier. I’ve met some really great people and made friends I’d never have met irl. That’s mainly why I’m here.
Plus certain people have helped me through some very dark times and helped me get my head straight.
The threads are also a genuinely fun way to kill time.

That’s what keeps me coming back.
 
I’m here because I get bored easily and I can’t stand that. Having some anonimity and some privacy away from all other parts of my life is an awesome thing. I work hard and play hard so it’s nice to be a part of a zero stress free world for a little while every day and I love to flirt so it’s a perfect environment for that without causing any drama in the real world!
 
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