The preference is irrelevant to the debate, I have always used a condom for sex except when in a long term relationship after we'd both been tested and even then that was quite a few months into the relationship. Whether you think sex is better or not with or without the condom is irrelevant to the discussion and this thinking and line of thought has to be stamped out.
Have you ever had an STD test and were genuinely anxious waiting for the results?