That's not a YES or NO question. Love is a feeling resulting from gut bacteria and brain producing a certain mixture of chemicals. I do believe that many people adore each other, because they respect each other, want to see each other succeed, trust each other in the process and have a desire to work for common reasonable life-long goals.
If some or much of that is missing, it's replaced by shady ass shit like manipulation, control, exploitation and some other bullshit revealed by modern psychology.
You know where the wild things are.