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How to Quickly Turn Up the Heat in A Sex Chat Room

2016, November 07

How to Quickly Turn Up the Heat in A Sex Chat Room

It's hard to believe that we're not all experts at sex chatting or sexting these days, as the opportunity to meet and chat with new people is more accessible now than ever. Even with sex chat rooms set up specifically for talking dirty, getting the conversation to that level can often be awkward. This is especially hard for those who don't normally take the initiative to make the first move. There's nothing worse than subtly trying to get your sexy on while the person on the other end of the conversation just doesn't get it. These tips will help you quickly turn the conversation around in a way that is impossible to misinterpret.

Be Direct

One of the biggest perks of using a sex chat room is that there are always dozens of people looking for someone with whom to talk. Whether you're trying to get through a slow Monday morning at work or looking for someone to keep you company while you binge watch The Walking Dead all night long, a quick introduction will put your boredom to rest in no time. If you're looking to skip the introductions and small talk, being direct is the best way to go. Since there are several people in any sex chat room, you'll have a better chance of finding someone looking for the same thing.


  • “I'm horny, who wants to chat?”
  • “Anyone looking to chat with a 200 pound blonde with a hard dick?” (Obviously alter the message to fit your description.)
  • “Who's looking to talk dirty?”

Put on the Charm

When there's someone you've been chatting with for a while in private messages, and you're trying to turn the conversation from flirty banter to some steamy back and forth, it can easily be done by referencing something you've talked about. So, if you're chatting with someone and they mention what they bought while they were out shopping, you can bring up the same topic later; and let them know that you're thinking about them in what they bought. This will not only let them know you're thinking about them, but that you're thinking about them looking sexy. This can also be done by referencing a photo or video they shared with you.


  • “I can't stop thinking about how sexy you probably look in that red dress you bought last week.”
  • “Are you awake? The thought of your big blue eyes is keeping me awake.”
  • “I'd love to see what you could do with those lips!”

Don't Pass Up On an Opportunity

It's easy to take a typical comment or greeting and turn it around so that the person you're chatting with knows you're in the mood. It's almost like being in middle school again having to listen to that one kid in the classroom who turned everything the teacher said into a dirty joke, except now you're that kid. This will make the person you're chatting with feel like they started the sex chat, and they'll end up being more comfortable.


Them: “I'm heading to bed soon.”
You: “Is that an invitation?”

Them: “I had a dream about you.”
You: “Oh yeah? What was I doing to you in the dream?”

Them: “I thought about you earlier.”
You: “Thought about me between your legs? So dirty of you!”

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