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Donjuan85 said:
What is something you thought you would of grown out of but haven't?
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Holding myself back, my fear of failure and of success. I've met some life goals I set for myself, and also missed some. I'm hard on myself for any failures I've had, and everyday I remind myself that I need to stop holding my power back, and to stop fearing failure. Some days, I am who I know I can be and who I want to be. Some days, I doubt and stagnate. I'm not proud of the days when I piss away time, because I lack the courage to face my fear.

I thought that by now I would have built the ability to see my failures as stepping stones for the next step, the next success and to believe in myself at a visceral level. I sink into "I should have achieved more by now. I should have been able to make a difference in more people's lives. I should have... I should have..." The list is there.

Still, I don't lose sight of the fact that I will succeed in ridding myself of that way of thinking. As long as I believe that I will get to that, I will.
 
Ok ladies, your house is on fire, you have the time to save five possessions, what are you dragging out onto the front lawn with your ass??
Note 1: size is irrelevant, for the sake of this question, before the "usual suspects" get clever/wise assy i.e. "I want to save the chez long but its to heavy to carry on my own", you know who you are!!!
Note 2: family members and pets are not classed as your possessions!! We assume that they find their own way out, unless you have fish, in which case lets assume that Dave from next door has dragged the fish tank out for you!!
 
theoriginalnumber8 said:
Ok ladies, your house is on fire, you have the time to save five possessions, what are you dragging out onto the front lawn with your ass??
Note 1: size is irrelevant, for the sake of this question, before the "usual suspects" get clever/wise assy i.e. "I want to save the chez long but its to heavy to carry on my own", you know who you are!!!
Note 2: family members and pets are not classed as your possessions!! We assume that they find their own way out, unless you have fish, in which case lets assume that Dave from next door has dragged the fish tank out for you!!
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1. External h/drive with all my photos on it
2. Folder with all my important papers.
3. My jewellery box
4. My phone
That’s it the rest is replaceable
 
Thalassa said:
What flaws / behaviors / thoughts / attitude do you have, that you know you ought to work on / diminish / eradicate?
Has a man ever inspired you to do that?
Why did you feel that way?
Did you act on that inspiration / desire to better yourself?
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I'd be here FOREVER if I answered this regarding my past but these days I wholeheartedly do ME without holding back or feeling the need to better myself for anyone BUT myself.

Anyone who I might want to attract if and when I was ready in the future would have to accept and love me for exactly who I am (in ALL my messy/extra/wild/uniquely flavoured realness) without attempting to change me first in order for me to go far enough with them to want to take on & be motivated by any positive traits they may possess that would eventually entice me to betterment and benefit of my inner &/or outer health, fun, spirit, wellbeing, heart, body, mind or soul!
 
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Donjuan85 said:
What is your favorite quality about your best friend?
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There's too many!! FUCK, what a hard question!! Ok ... her voice of reason is SO perfectly spot on and fair and keeps it sooo REAL when I come to her for ANY kind of guidance and advice whether it be relationship/member of the opposite sex/fashion/family/music/food related etc she ALWAYS has the right words I need to hear ... and not to please me in any way cause she's super skilled in the art of tactful honesty and has the most amazing delivery whether it's something I don't want to hear or not!
 
theoriginalnumber8 said:
Ok ladies, your house is on fire, you have the time to save five possessions, what are you dragging out onto the front lawn with your ass??
Note 1: size is irrelevant, for the sake of this question, before the "usual suspects" get clever/wise assy i.e. "I want to save the chez long but its to heavy to carry on my own", you know who you are!!!
Note 2: family members and pets are not classed as your possessions!! We assume that they find their own way out, unless you have fish, in which case lets assume that Dave from next door has dragged the fish tank out for you!!
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  1. Art portfolios
  2. Bass guitar collection
  3. Grandparents jewelery (in my jewelry boxes with my special currency collection and my own jewelry so win/win!
  4. Book collection
  5. My chest (not my tits) All my photos (are in one big chest) :)
 
Peggy said:
Yes! I'm 5ft6 ! I like my men at least 6 ft. If not 5 ft taller the least
I like them looking down at me with those puppy eyes and sweet smirk!
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You mean atleast 5 inches taller, right?
I can picture the scene...adorable :)

Thalassa said:
Taller. Minimum of 5'11.

It's a preference that is rooted in my being submissive. Even though / since I'm 5'1 and petite, I prefer a man who is dominant to me in every way. Physical traits of dominance - for me - translate into his height, weight, strength, stamina and overall build.
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You're a pocket size dynamo, Thalassa... you're a sub irl but on here i feel a little intimidated by you tbh (mostly Outta respect) :)

Thanking both of you for sharing your thoughts... appreciate it... I'd love other women to join in too... I'm 5'11" fyi
 
Gujjuguy said:
Do you prefer being with a guy who is taller than yourself? Do elaborate on your preference about a guy's height.
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I never knew why I honestly do actually prefer taller guys even though I always thought their powers of attraction and personality should matter more and didn't wanna be one of those shallow bitches about it, then I just legit read Thalassa's answer and now have to wonder if it has to do with not so much him being taller but me wanting to feel smaller as a naturally very sub inclined female?! Hmmm!
 
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