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PoliteandNaughty said:
Ladies, do you mind asking your partner to do specific things to you/with you during sex? Why or why not?
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lol I've never needed to ask lol Things just go the way they go lol :) One minute you're facing this way and in a blink of the eye you're facing the other way lol and then blink again and you're rolling around on the kitchen floor and blink again you're up against the fridge lol I guess when we are not thinking about certain things they just happen. And with a nature flow to it lol :)
 
MissLed said:
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lol I've never needed to ask lol Things just go the way they go lol :) One minute you're facing this way and in a blink of the eye you're facing the other way lol and then blink again and you're rolling around on the kitchen floor and blink again you're up against the fridge lol I guess when we are not thinking about certain things they just happen. And with a nature flow to it lol :)
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Yes and yes:p
 
I have a question for my fellow squirters... When you have a squirting orgasm, is it a better feeling then without squirting? Ever since I started squirting I seem to almost always squirt now (90% of the time). Most of the time it's great. An earth shaking, holy fudge balls kinda feeling. Once in a while though it's just a big release but without the real "awe" moment along with it. I know everyone's different but I was just wondering if that's, and I hate to use this word but, is that normal?
 
Kbunny said:
I have a question for my fellow squirters... When you have a squirting orgasm, is it a better feeling then without squirting? Ever since I started squirting I seem to almost always squirt now (90% of the time). Most of the time it's great. An earth shaking, holy fudge balls kinda feeling. Once in a while though it's just a big release but without the real "awe" moment along with it. I know everyone's different but I was just wondering if that's, and I hate to use this word but, is that normal?
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lol From one Squirted to another lol With me...I only get the "awe" when I'm totally at ease, at peace and relaxed. And for me that takes awhile :) ..So it's a good thing to "Seduce" me all day in little ways. I find that if I'm treated this way then that night/morning/afternoon/evening lol :) is so well worth it lol :) The longer the tease the bigger the please lol or The Deeper the Blush the Bigger the Gush :)...Also lol :) With me, It's a slow steady build up and just when you think you can't hold it in anymore it gushes out like a " Dam of Dreams" lolol Coz it is like a Dam bursting open lol :) ... But who's to say whats "normal" about anything lol
 
Dan44 said:
Ok....lol...you’ll have to describe that one...is that just the guy on his back? Or is he sitting up with you on top. (Btw, I’m laughing at my not knowing...not @ you ;))
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He's sitting in the middle of the bed with me on top looking at him lol :) ...But it's to get me to Bliss City after other positions lol :)
 
Kbunny said:
I have a question for my fellow squirters... When you have a squirting orgasm, is it a better feeling then without squirting? Ever since I started squirting I seem to almost always squirt now (90% of the time). Most of the time it's great. An earth shaking, holy fudge balls kinda feeling. Once in a while though it's just a big release but without the real "awe" moment along with it. I know everyone's different but I was just wondering if that's, and I hate to use this word but, is that normal?
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I don't squirt every time. Frankly, I still don't understand why it happens the times that I do or don't.

A squirty climax has a different feeling from regular climaxing, so for me, I cannot compare. Squirting is different because it feels like I am completely relaxed while also having the muscular tension that comes before any kind of climax (regular or squirty), which makes it a special kind of amazing. Regular climaxing is simply the release of any bodily build-up. It isn't accompanied by a "next level" letting go and exhaustion of completion.

I say, there is no "normal". It is the same for me for both types if climaxing. The intensity varies. Yours sound amazing no matter their degree.

Have you figured out what the conditions that produce the holy fudgeballs vs. big release ones?
 
Dan44 said:
Ok....lol...you’ll have to describe that one...is that just the guy on his back? Or is he sitting up with you on top. (Btw, I’m laughing at my not knowing...not @ you ;)). Or is that me sitting in a Chair with a beer in my hand and the remote in the other?
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lol ooo and by the way lol no remote for you lol :)
 
Thalassa said:
I don't squirt every time. Frankly, I still don't understand why it happens the times that I do or don't.

A squirty climax has a different feeling from regular climaxing, so for me, I cannot compare. Squirting is different because it feels like I am completely relaxed while also having the muscular tension that comes before any kind of climax (regular or squirty), which makes it a special kind of amazing. Regular climaxing is simply the release of any bodily build-up. It isn't accompanied by a "next level" letting go and exhaustion of completion.

I say, there is no "normal". It is the same for me for both types if climaxing. The intensity varies. Yours sound amazing no matter their degree.

Have you figured out what the conditions that produce the holy fudgeballs vs. big release ones?
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I can agreee with all that :) I don't always do it but do enjoy it when it does h appen.. ..I already know how I need to feel to really let go . But I like a long run up lol :)
 
Thalassa said:
Have you figured out what the conditions that produce the holy fudgeballs vs. big release ones?
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I tend to be a headcase and overthink everything (too many insecurities). Foreplay obviously makes the biggest difference. The longer it lasts, the more likely and the bigger I'll squirt. When I stop thinking and just enjoy what's happening I definitely have a better overall orgasm no matter what kind it is. However I find myself concentrating on squirting because I know how much my husband loves when I do. No, I don't need to concentrate on it to do it, but sometimes I just can't help it. It's definitely better when it happens without me thinking about it.

Another thing is that my whole body gets worn out much easier when I'm about to go full out waterfall. So I think it wears me out to the point of not quite getting the full O feeling. Sometimes he'll notice, have me relax for a few, then I almost always have an earth shaking, holy fudgeballs kinda moment.

So I guess it's really just my head fudgin me up... Lol
 
Kbunny said:
I tend to be a headcase and overthink everything (too many insecurities). Foreplay obviously makes the biggest difference. The longer it lasts, the more likely and the bigger I'll squirt. When I stop thinking and just enjoy what's happening I definitely have a better overall orgasm no matter what kind it is. However I find myself concentrating on squirting because I know how much my husband loves when I do. No, I don't need to concentrate on it to do it, but sometimes I just can't help it. It's definitely better when it happens without me thinking about it.

Another thing is that my whole body gets worn out much easier when I'm about to go full out waterfall. So I think it wears me out to the point of not quite getting the full O feeling. Sometimes he'll notice, have me relax for a few, then I almost always have an earth shaking, holy fudgeballs kinda moment.

So I guess it's really just my head fudgin me up... Lol
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lol Hey Join the club lol You will figure it out lol sounds like your figuring it out just fine :) ...You're learning about connecting your feelings to your body :) ...Like when you said the longer the foreplay the better :) ..that's is a big key lol :) ...that's why I like getting the little notes ,text ect but also that little caress up your arm as he walks past you or the way he will stop you in the middle of the hall to pick something up off the floor...but does it in a way that you can't get by so stand there...and that's when he runs his fingers up your body from your ankles and then cups your face in his hands and almost kisses your lips..but then smiles. kissed the tip of your nose and bows for me to pass lol :) And there are other things I could comment on but I don't really think I'm making any sense lol :) ...Just don't concentrate for too long....Just feel it....feel it build up...and then explode....Let go for your husband every chance you get :)
 
Kbunny said:
I tend to be a headcase and overthink everything (too many insecurities). Foreplay obviously makes the biggest difference. The longer it lasts, the more likely and the bigger I'll squirt. When I stop thinking and just enjoy what's happening I definitely have a better overall orgasm no matter what kind it is. However I find myself concentrating on squirting because I know how much my husband loves when I do. No, I don't need to concentrate on it to do it, but sometimes I just can't help it. It's definitely better when it happens without me thinking about it.

Another thing is that my whole body gets worn out much easier when I'm about to go full out waterfall. So I think it wears me out to the point of not quite getting the full O feeling. Sometimes he'll notice, have me relax for a few, then I almost always have an earth shaking, holy fudgeballs kinda moment.

So I guess it's really just my head fudgin me up... Lol
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I get the overthinking (and a few of the other things you wrote). There's a part of my brain that stays on, even though I know it should be turned off and that it would just make everything funner. When he senses I am getting frustrated or am "too much in my head", he'll stop and talk to me, so I let go of my "idea of how I think things should go".

Your squirty orgasms seem to have a more defined pattern than mine. When I think it's gonna be a tsunami, it isn't; and vice versa. Doesn't help if I want it, wish it, or equally don't think about it. Because conditions are never the same (hours slept, stress level, foreplay or not, fatigue, etc.), I am not able to determine how it all comes together. What I have found though, is that taking time to mindfully relax, stifles that train thought and magnifies sensory input.

In the end, my conclusion is that each person has a unique personal combination for orgasming (regular or squirty). A conclusion that doesn't help, lol.
 
Ladies, how has your upbringing/culture/religion affected your approach to sex for better or worse?
 
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