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Ladies, when you desire or want sex from your partner, how do you express it? Are you more physical (e.g., kissing more, touching more, flirting heavily) than you normally tend to be? Do you convey your desire/want through words? Or is there a totally different way you express your desire/want for sex?
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
Ladies - When you are in a relationship, what significance do you place on your significant other giving you time to do things on your own and/or hang out with your friends? Is it important at all or not really make a difference to you?
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I took on much more responsibilities from an early age than the average person of my own age and due to my stubbornness to accomplish them without asking for outside help, I found and still find myself with little free time for extended outings with friends. My main form of contact is by phone, video calls, texts. There was a time when it was important to me to manage having outings with friends. However, I found that those had an opportunity cost and so whatever meetups I have are by necessity and obligation rather than for fun or for purely personal reasons.
 
AlexWS said:
Ladies, have you ever been jealous of your closest friends? If so, why?
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"Jealous" has a negative connotation and it would be odd to experience that with my friends. What I could experience though is envy, which is more of an "I wish I...", instead of "fucking bitch, may you be cursed for..."

Envy makes me want and try to be better. I haven't ever had the "keep up what the Joneses" complex. Rather the qualities that I envy would be character traits like perseverance, a positive attitude, how do they do more in less time, etc.

Of course, as a woman I have envied better looking friends, but those who work at being fit, not those who are genetically born beautiful. It makes me want put in the effort to do the same. "If they can do it, why can't I?" That's the root of envy, for me at least.

As a final comment, if I had "friends" who were jealous of me or of others, I would think twice about keeping them in my circle. Jealousy doesn't raise anyone up, rather it breeds hate. Friends do not and should not feel hate for each other.
 
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Thalassa said:
"Jealous" has a negative connotation and it would be odd to experience that with my friends. What I could experience though is envy, which is more of an "I wish I...", instead of "fucking bitch, may you be cursed for..."

Envy makes me want and try to be better. I haven't ever had the "keep up what the Joneses" complex. Rather the qualities that I envy would be character traits like perseverance, a positive attitude, how do they do more in less time, etc.

Of course, as a woman I have envied better looking friends, but those who work at being fit, not those who are genetically born beautiful. It makes me want to do the same. "If they can do it, why can't I?" That's the root of envy, for me at least.

As a final comment, if I had "friends" who were jealous of me, I would think twice about keeping them in my circle. Jealousy doesn't raise anyone up, rather it breeds hate. Friends do not and should not feel hate for each other.
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Beautifully said:D
 
AlexWS said:
Ladies, have you ever been jealous of your closest friends? If so, why?
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Once, when my closest friend passed their driving test before me. They’d worked so hard for it and had been trying for a while, whereas I had prioritised other things and stopped my lessons. I was really pleased for them, but I was jealous.
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
Ladies, when you desire or want sex from your partner, how do you express it? Are you more physical (e.g., kissing more, touching more, flirting heavily) than you normally tend to be? Do you convey your desire/want through words? Or is there a totally different way you express your desire/want for sex?
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Mostly physical. If I use words, I don't use words like "sex" or "fuck" or any overt sexual language. Instead, I use fairly minimal amount of innocuous-sounding words, e.g. "Can we... tonight/later?" (That's it, there are no words in lieu of the ellipsis, lol). As I've written in one of my previous posts, I am somewhat inhibited verbally. I suppose I should work on "freeing my spoken words ", but it is so awkward and weird for me, that I haven't been able to (so far?).

Physically it's actions like grinding against his groin (e.g. when he comes up behind me as I'm doing the dishes, or when I'm sitting on his lap), or just going straight for it by going down on him.
 
Do you watch porn together with the person you are with?

How do you start doing that? (i.e. do you ask? Do you just turn in on while they are with you?)

What kinds of reactions have you gotten from him?
 
Thalassa said:
Do you watch porn together with the person you are with?

How do you start doing that? (i.e. do you ask? Do you just turn in on while they are with you?)

What kinds of reactions have you gotten from him?
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Not really, unless I see something weird and wanna show the person i'm with and it's usually not sexy or during sex.

I would ask them, wouldn't just turn it on. I think it's a little overkill and I don't need it to have sex. I wouldn't want to rely on it.
 
Women, who do you as a group consistently date and fuck assholes, but send the nice guys to the friend zone?
 
NerdiGuy said:
Women, who do you as a group consistently date and fuck assholes, but send the nice guys to the friend zone?
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I'm thinking you meant to type 'why' above instead of 'who'. Only reason I say that is because it doesn't seem to make much sense with 'who' there.

I'm not a woman, but I'm curious person by nature, so I'm wondering...

1) What makes you think women, as a group, consistently "date and fuck" assholes? Personally I've never thought women did this collectively as a group. Are there some women who may be attracted to a specific type of guy (maybe rough around the edges or burly)? Certainly could be the case. We all have specific types we are attracted to. I just think going with a broad approach of work only dating/fucking assholes is a bit extreme.

2) What do you consider a "nice guy" to be? One who is polite, respectful, shy, and perhaps a little timid? One who is always a gentleman? Again just curious as it might help understand the reason behind your question. Some women (based of my experience) don't always want a man to be "nice", especially when in the bedroom. Now it doesn't necessarily mean they want men to be a total dick either. Sometimes there is a fine line and it's more based on trust than being nice.
 
Victoriax said:
Once, when my closest friend passed their driving test before me. They’d worked so hard for it and had been trying for a while, whereas I had prioritised other things and stopped my lessons. I was really pleased for them, but I was jealous.
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Hope you never see a spider while driving :rolleyes:
 
Victoriax said:
LOL a spider was on my rear screen on a lesson once, I was reversing and focused on the spider so much, I nearly hit a wall. :eek:
I didn’t, but I was THIS close. *pinches fingers together*
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I thought you were going to say you got lost while driving
I would have replied, not surprised

...but

Did your voice get all high pitched and scream "oi, I soar a schewpid spider. Bloody thing is lit tray ley the size of my hand"
 
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