Welcome aboard. Great introduction. Have you read any Brian lumley? I read a lot of horror/sci-fi. If you haven’t read the Necroscope, I highly recommend it.
In my experience, you should lead with the cunnilingus bit. I’ve seen girls that treat oral like a consolation prize. Even if she won’t let you hit, she might let you eat it...
After watching porn you may still feel lonely, or more lonely. Interaction is the appeal I think. I’ve never used Kim or the like, but years ago my ex and I used to use a chat forum like this. Men don’t need interaction but it does make it less depressing ;)
I want it in the morning. But wifey knows that I’ll want it again by bedtime. So we usually go for night time. If you give a mouse a cookie, he’s gonna want some milk, we’ll if you give this dick some pussy, he’s gonna want your ass too