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SubSoph said:
What are some of the best things to do together with your significant other?
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Your question made me wonder about all the things I've done alone but felt like there should've been someone (the one) to accompany me which would've made my experience even better!
Here's my answer:

• Watching a Sunset/Sunrise from a place we discovered which was quite inert.
• Ball dances on slow and melow tunes...yess pleasee!!
• Cooking food in the kitchen together. (Really special as the food tastes much better with all that love going into it as an ingredient)
• Going on a trip to places with a different culture and language.
• Therapeutic massages together

Thank you, Cutie : )
 
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
 
LilithX said:
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
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Damn this is such a great question! And somehow no one has responded lmao
 
LilithX said:
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
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I'm extremely comfortable with my partner exploring anal and prostrate simulation! As a matter of fact I've explored it myself... It is exciting to explore and play with my 'P-spot' and feel a different kind of arousal. I find it gives me a different type of stimulation and a much more intense orgasm.

Hope that wasn't too much detail and provided an answer to the question.
 
PoliteandNaughty said:
I'm extremely comfortable with my partner exploring anal and prostrate simulation! As a matter of fact I've explored it myself... It is exciting to explore and play with my 'P-spot' and feel a different kind of arousal. I find it gives me a different type of stimulation and a much more intense orgasm.

Hope that wasn't too much detail and provided an answer to the question.
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Thanks for sharing!! I think a lot of guys are fearful people will think they're gay, which is ridiculously inaccurate. I also think it's incredibly sexy to be confident and know what you like
 
LilithX said:
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
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I've never been with a partner that was adventurous enough to help, and to be honest there is a certain level of intimidation with me as it's not something I know much about for myself. One woman I saw in college loved anal, and I'm open to that type of stimulation with someone who has the patience. :3
 
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What do you consider cheating? Where does flirting end and cheating begin? Or do you believe flirting while in a committed relationship is cheating?
 
LilithX said:
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
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I experimented with it a while ago. I had the impression she didn't feel really confortable with it, adding to my uneasyness... Whatever you read about anal, the first rule always seem to be to relax. That didn't work, so the experimenting ended there.
 
When you're getting a blowjob and you're close to cumming, is it crucial that the sucking motions and intensity be unchanged until you cum?

Is it a case of "the train has left the station" and nothing will cause the rise of the orgasm to falter?
 
Thalassa said:
When you're getting a blowjob and you're close to cumming, is it crucial that the sucking motions and intensity be unchanged until you cum?

Is it a case of "the train has left the station" and nothing will cause the rise of the orgasm to falter?
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Not necessarily. Depends on technique used I suppose and how you like to finish. Sometimes a change works well.

My ex used to use her tongue very skilfully so wasnt always about the suction involved but she got turned on by having cum on her boobs so didnt always let me finish in her mouth

Only person to give me one in the last 12 years so prob hard for me to compare really
 
LilithX said:
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
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I personally think if it is done right its brilliant. I have had it done to me last year when a girl was riding me reverse cow girl position. She didnt really ask me she just testing my boundary and slowly worked her way up to it. It was amazing

But my ex tried it once as she asked me to use my finger in her bum and asked if i wanted to try it. Was a little uncomfortable. Still felt nice but i am guessing the girl last year was a little more experienced in the area

I dont think it needs to be kept quiet. Not exactly a shameful sex act in my eyes
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
From a male perspective (although I know it differs from guy to guy) How much porn is too much porn?
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I think watching porn is healthy. I was seeing this girl casually in South Africa and she loved watching porn together. Was a bit awkward to start off with as never watched porn with someone else before (more of a one man sport type of thing)

But after a few times it was fun

My friend watches it all the time, mornings, during the day, night. Which i would find a little tiresome if that makes sense? Watch a bit at night now as have litte option to find someone else atm but when with someone I watch a little less
 
Could you repeatedly have sex with someone you aren’t attracted to apart from her tits? Asking for a friend..
 
Curvy said:
Could you repeatedly have sex with someone you aren’t attracted to apart from her tits? Asking for a friend..
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No I don't think so. I like a woman with a sense of humour. If she has nice tits then great, but if thats all you are attracted to then i cant see if that will work

Suppose its like being with a bloke with a penis like an iguana but not liking any other part of him
 
DaveJonno83 said:
No I don't think so. I like a woman with a sense of humour. If she has nice tits then great, but if thats all you are attracted to then i cant see if that will work

Suppose its like being with a bloke with a penis like an iguana but not liking any other part of him
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Thanks. I was seeing someone who said after several sex sessions. where they were left more than satisfied, that the only thing they liked about my body were my tits, and wouldn’t be attracted to me if they saw me in the street. I still don’t get it.

Personally I couldn’t do that to someone.
 
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