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Thanks. I was seeing someone who said after several sex sessions where they exploded every time that the only thing they liked about my body were my tits, and wouldn’t be attracted to me of they saw me in the street. I still don’t get it.

Yeah bit odd that one.

I love a curvy woman. Nothing turns me on more. Don't have anything against thin women, just find curvy women as my type. But wouldn't keep sleeping with someone just because of their boobs, legs, ass et al
 
Could you repeatedly have sex with someone you aren’t attracted to apart from her tits? Asking for a friend..
No, I couldn't repeatedly have sex with someone I was only attracted to one part of. Physical or otherwise. I personally am not the "I just want a hole to stick my dick in" kind of guy...it's not rewarding or fun, which to me is the whole point of sex.
 
When you're getting a blowjob and you're close to cumming, is it crucial that the sucking motions and intensity be unchanged until you cum?

Is it a case of "the train has left the station" and nothing will cause the rise of the orgasm to falter?

If I'm getting a blowjob I don't care how you're doing it...just do what makes you happy, because unless you're knawing on my dick like its a bone with scraps of meat on it, I'm gonna be happy as can be.

Unless someone explicitly says they don't want to know, I'll tell them when I'm close to finishing, I'm not picky if they want me to cum in their mouth or not, I'm just going to sit back and enjoy the fact I'm getting a BJ.
 
No, I couldn't repeatedly have sex with someone I was only attracted to one part of. Physical or otherwise. I personally am not the "I just want a hole to stick my dick in" kind of guy...it's not rewarding or fun, which to me is the whole point of sex.
Presumably then, the guy I had the misfortune of seeing was the other type of guy..
 
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried!

My first good experience in this area involved self stimulation using a toy designed specifically for men and for the benefit of the woman to watch via cam. Her reaction (spoiler: she went nuts) made the experience very enjoyable. Prior to that, I've never really wanted anything in there and, although the occasional woman might have stuck a finger in there, neither of us knew what the hell we were doing.

As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you?
My sense is that's it's quite the opposite. Since my self stimulation episode, I've been much more open to the idea and have found that many women have thought about and wanted to explore it, even if they hadn't previously. That's not an invitation for you to buy a strap on . . . or is it?

Do you shave your arms and/or legs?
Why / Why not?
I don't but I've been accused several times of doing so. :p

When you're getting a blowjob and you're close to cumming, is it crucial that the sucking motions and intensity be unchanged until you cum?

Is it a case of "the train has left the station" and nothing will cause the rise of the orgasm to falter?

At the outset, it's should be no surprise to anyone that bringing a man to orgasm is not particularly difficult. Having said that, in my experience, most women are not great at giving head. For the sake of this question, I'll assume both that the man finds the woman appealing and that she's also reasonably skilled. That being the case, the train has left the station and the only question is the speed it's going to obtain before it crashes.
 
Do you shave your arms and/or legs?
Why / Why not?

I don't shave my arms or my legs. Now to the more interesting part of the question... why not? Honestly there is no specific reason why not. I've never given it much thought. I'm certainly not opposed to shaving either my arms or legs. Though I probably would be a little more open to shaving my legs since hardly anyone sees my legs, ha. Kind of wondering how it would feel!
 
When you're getting a blowjob and you're close to cumming, is it crucial that the sucking motions and intensity be unchanged until you cum?

Is it a case of "the train has left the station" and nothing will cause the rise of the orgasm to falter?

If I'm getting a good blowjob and I'm close to pouring out my cum, it doesn't really matter the intensity or the direction of the sucking motions. She can go slower if she wants, take all of me, flick her tongue all around, pretty much whatever. If I'm super close to cumming it isn't going to make much of a difference what she does. She could even probably stop the blowjob and I'm going to cum. Though more than likely of that happens I'm going to grab the back of her neck and go very fast until I finish.
 
First lets just acknowledge that the "friend" is you.

I'm not sure if you understand how it might sound really odd, desperate and shallow to have sex with someone that only has ONE single asset you find attractive on their whole body??

Are you just planning on using the girl with the killer tits to get your rocks off?

I wonder how and why you even bothered getting into her pants at all if she's so unnatractive to you.

Do you have a fetish for tits or do you just see her as an easy option? Maybe she's the only person you can manage to find to have sex with ... what does that say about you?

I assume she must really like you if you're allowed to get it from her repeatedly. I wonder what attracts her to you though.

How do you think she'd feel if she knew you only wanted sex with her because she has attractive tits but nothing else.

If you can only find one thing about her that you like, how does that justify having more sex with her? That's a bit of a shit go.

She was asking the question because some guy did that to her. She sounded pretty hurt by it.
 
Do you shave your arms and/or legs?
Why / Why not?

I trim the hair on my legs and arms. I make it a point to trim my Torsoe hair, arms hair and the ones on my upper back (till wherever I can reach on the back actually) once in a couple of weeks. I trim the legs hair once a month because if I trim my upper and lower body hair at the same time, it becomes quite lengthy.

I trim em because I feel it makes me look better and also for hygienic reasons. Plus it looks better in the mirror while flexing my muscles after a workout : )
 
Thanks. I was seeing someone who said after several sex sessions. where they were left more than satisfied, that the only thing they liked about my body were my tits, and wouldn’t be attracted to me if they saw me in the street. I still don’t get it.

Personally I couldn’t do that to someone.

He's a bloody shallow asshole. If he just wants tits, point him to the melon aisle next time. Before you do that though, tell him how you would have liked to return the compliment by saying you wanted him just for his dick, but that, alas, his dick size pales dramatically next to his dick self.
 
Oral ... When it cums to the gifting and receiving of some damn good head (is there any other kind?)

Do you have a preference as to who should go down first or do you not mind the order and just let go and let it happen depending on heat of moment, mood or who's lips end up at who's bits first?

Do you prefer it to be reciprocated by both of you at some stage during your romp or that only one of you should take Centre stage and get all the attention within one full round?

Everyone's different and there's no right or wrong answer - just curious as to what you're thoughts are.

(I prefer ladies first FYI. If his mouth knows his way around a pussy and I'm gifted my climax(es) 1st I go above and beyond to tease him and please him with my mouth in return and I GO ALL OUT in appreciation.)

Oops sorry, I'll shut up let the men answer their Q:
 
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