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How do you feel about your partner kissing you immediately after a blow job? Is there any issue?
No issue for me at all if the person I'm with is happy to give me a blow job I'd be more than happy to kiss after.
 
Ello there!
I want an awkwardly elaborate answer to the age-old question that has plagued men since the dawn of time.
Boobs or Butt?
Why? And show me your equations of how you came to the conclusion.
Also, please no weak stuff like "I prefer personality" or whatever :p
Okay and you want specifics. Plain and simple - I like boobs, why because I kiss, caress and suck on them, I am not sucking a butt, nope, ain't happening.
Frankly the only thing a butt is good for for me is handles to push the pussy closer during oral. I don't get the idea that a big ass is sexy, I never understood it, and can't fathom it. I like a nice butt, but it's not the attraction point.
 
Okay and you want specifics. Plain and simple - I like boobs, why because I kiss, caress and suck on them, I am not sucking a butt, nope, ain't happening.
Frankly the only thing a butt is good for for me is handles to push the pussy closer during oral. I don't get the idea that a big ass is sexy, I never understood it, and can't fathom it. I like a nice butt, but it's not the attraction point.
Curious. So, do you like anal sex?
 
There's a great chance that this has already been asked, but I honestly can't be bothered to scroll through 29 pages.

What's the appeal of sending someone an unsolicited dick pic? Is it trying to show domination or superiority, or is it desperation?
Frankly, I think it's just stupidity. I don't even send unsolicited PMs. I'd much rather chat in the room, and whisper a request to PM. I often wonder if giant dick pic means, I don't know what I'm doing, hope you're desperate enough to want a large dick to just accept this.
 
What's the appeal of sending someone an unsolicited dick pic?
I've actually been curious about this too. Not necessarily about sending them...I can kind of understand why one sends unsolicited pics (might be guilty of that). But why is it so exciting or appealing to photograph your genitals? I think men have so many other more photographable features. And let's be honest, during sex...one doesn't really 'see' much cock...
So what is the appeal in photographing one's own genitals? Is it just an efficiency thing...you know...get to the point? or is there something else?
 
I've actually been curious about this too. Not necessarily about sending them...I can kind of understand why one sends unsolicited pics (might be guilty of that). But why is it so exciting or appealing to photograph your genitals? I think men have so many other more photographable features. And let's be honest, during sex...one doesn't really 'see' much cock...
So what is the appeal in photographing one's own genitals? Is it just an efficiency thing...you know...get to the point? or is there something else?
Now that has probably more to do with the lack of other sexual areas on the male body. Most men (not all) don't want pegged or a finger stuck in their asses, so while they may have a nice butt, it doesn't register as sexual. Sticking your tongue out is usually associated with teasing or ridicule and taking a pic of you're fingers isn't something most guys thing of sending.

Again, it's probably due more to blind stupidity than anything else.
 
so while they may have a nice butt, it doesn't register as sexual.
By that do you mean that men photograph what they find sexually arousing...ie only genitalia and not other parts of their bodies?

the lack of other sexual areas on the male body
Really? Is the male body lacking other sexually exciting areas?
I think every lump and bump and inch of male skin is so arousing.

But I want to know more about why people like to photograph their genitals in particular.
 
There's a great chance that this has already been asked, but I honestly can't be bothered to scroll through 29 pages.

What's the appeal of sending someone an unsolicited dick pic? Is it trying to show domination or superiority, or is it desperation?
Tbh I'm not sure why but I'll try and give an answer I think from a man's perspective woman have so many wonderful parts about there body's the men enjoy to see, boobs,bum the list could be quite endless now from a man's point of view the only thing that he may see(and this isn't every man) as been an opposite to all the sexy things they see in a woman is his cock. I'm pretty sure most women would agree that this is not the most attractive of things at the best of times, but from certain men's point of view this is the only thing that women would like to see. Iv never done it and don't think I ever would even if asked probably due to sheer embarrassment, the only people that could really answer this would be the people that send them,I'm probably completely wrong but thought I would give my input,
 
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So is it an inability to imagine how other people see us? Men can't imagine/don't think about what women want to see?

Ive never done it and don't think I ever would

Yes, and you add an important point, of the other end of the spectrum. What makes photographing oneself so unappealing?
Thanks for the input. :)
 
By that do you mean that men photograph what they find sexually arousing...ie only genitalia and not other parts of their bodies?
Really? Is the male body lacking other sexually exciting areas?
I think every lump and bump and inch of male skin is so arousing.

But I want to know more about why people like to photograph their genitals in particular.
Firstly, let me say all this is a generality and ALL Generalities are false, including this one - lol.. I honestly believe that men and women are shaped they way they are because it's what draws the eye of the opposite sex. It's why for centuries homosexuals were viewed as "odd", we now know it's just perspective, but it doesn't change the fact that that perspective is just that a perspective. Generally, men don't think of their other parts as sexy or more to the point they think that they are utilitarian.

But it comes down to how men parse information rather than being vain-glorious (although that is part of it). If you ask a man what his hands are good for, they will list a hundred things before they get to sex, not that they can't massage, grope, pinch, twists and finger the hell out of their partners, but it isn't the primary thing men think of.
And the same can be said of every other part of the male physique, when it comes to the penis though, you piss and you fuck. That's it 50/50 utilitarian and sex - therefore, it's the primary thing we think of. (again, this is a generality, don't read too deep into it). When a man looks at a women they see boobs, ass, legs, pussy, back, neck, etc because women 'allow' (for lack of a better word) themselves to think of their whole body as sexy or at least can.

Honestly, for myself, the sexiest thing a woman has is their mind, and it is the primary erogenous zone, seduce a woman's mind, her body will follow. But a brain scan isn't hot. so.... Also the first thing I notice on a woman is her eyes. After that it's the boobs... :) What can I say, I'm a boob guy.
 
Yes, and you add an important point, of the other end of the spectrum. What makes photographing oneself so unappealing?
Thanks for the input. :)[/QUOTE]

I didn't mean photographing yourself is unappealing just certain parts.
 
FireflyEyes, I go with a nice chest shot or a beautiful smile depends. But I think some people don't find that within themselves they have a good trait so it's just the " new normal" here she'll like this ...
 
Well scientifically speaking, to procreate and mold the next generation. Realistically, to be a friend, listen and respect your partner and if said time comes, having sex with them therefore learning what they like or don’t like to do. I don’t have total experience in the last part I mentioned though.
 
Ask a man? Hmmmm? O.k. Why can't men be more like women, when it comes to common sense?

Like don't get into bar room brawls, don't volunteer to join any military, or domestic service without realizing that yeah you could lose your life in that position, and don't do it to expect anything in return.

You joined for the benefits, and or, the ability to legally kill people. There really are some who have a blood lust, don't even try to lie k lol

Now, why woman are the true dominant in relationships? It's because of something very basic. It's a matter that the female has to give birth, and protect her young. The male may defend her, but he is truly expendable. After all it only takes one stud to service a herd! lol :p:cool:


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What is typically the first thing you look for in a woman? Looks are not everything, obviously, but what is the strongest factor you look for?
Her eyes, I love a woman with eyes that can both light up a room and be lusty at the same time so when you look into you know what she wants and needs:)
 
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