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MissLed said:
Things happen in life in which you find your self, Mentally , way out of whack. That then rolls into every other aspect of your life. Before long you become a shell of your former self. I'm not one to open up to certain things in my life. But I can say one thing. Me in here is the same as me out there. But with one difference. I'm not quite over that Mental hurdle enough to venture too far from home . So thank goodness for FCN :) So yes lol I am the same :) This site is teaching me to be me again :)
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I knew you're a dude!!!

Lol jk, ily Missy <3
 
SubSoph said:
Are cuddles okay? Do you find them to be comforting, or do you not see them as enjoyable whatsoever?
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Cuddles are great! I received quite a few from my Mother (Happy Mothers Day!!! I love you, mom :*) when i was a kid which was a long time ago and i loved em!
I crave for them through out the day and so I cuddle the hell out of my Pillows whenever I can lol
I see them as comforting and relaxing! The contact which happens while cuddling and the way both bodies get to feel eachothers warmth and softness is really what makes me wanna have it!
 
Thalassa said:
What turns you on most when you are on fcn?

Does that "turning on" lead you to do something - masturbate online/offline? Express it with your RL significant other? Left to simmer?
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Okay I'll come straight to the point.... Posting my pics which i can't post anywhere else is a huge turn on for me!
The FCN public post some lit af content (pictorial/ non-pictorial) which is also a turn-on!
Ngl the ladies on here have "helped" me a few times with their sensual posts and I'm really grateful to them (creepy but sowwy)
This place also switches me on and gives me mind orgasms... a high which makes me mentally happy.
 
Gujjuguy said:
Ngl the ladies on here have "helped" me a few times with their sensual posts and I'm really grateful to them (creepy but sowwy)
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Hahaaa. Well, you're being honest. Lots of guys wouldn't say so because they don't want to be seen as "creepy", which btw is a comment I don't get (in most cases). This is a site where oversexed people congregate and can see naked pics that are freely posted. What's the expectation here? That they'd take a notepad and write what their opinion is of the pic? More like soak the notepad with their special ink, lol.
 
Thalassa said:
Hahaaa. Well, you're being honest. Lots of guys wouldn't say so because they don't want to be seen as "creepy", which btw is a comment I don't get (in most cases). This is a site where oversexed people congregate and can see naked pics that are freely posted. What's the expectation here? That they'd take a notepad and write what their opinion is of the pic? More like soak the notepad with their special ink, lol.
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LOLOLOLOL nooooo lol no one would do that lolol :)
 
Thalassa said:
How true to your non-online personality is your fcn persona?

Is it easier being a certain version of yourself here, that you cannot be 'out there'?
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I'm pretty much the same person on here as i am irl.
If anything, this place has helped me become a better person and widen my perspective to life. It has umm made me know women, better and give them even more respect.
I can talk to them in a more friendly manner irl but also I've learnt where "the line" is and that one should never cross it.
The Men on here have also been supportive and friendly and their kindness and coolness has rubbed off on me.
Made me thankful toward life for sure.
 
Thalassa said:
What turns you on most when you are on fcn?

Does that "turning on" lead you to do something - masturbate online/offline? Express it with your RL significant other? Left to simmer?
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I am not "turned on" by FCN. I truly and sincerely appreciate all the beautiful women (one in particular;)) participating and making this wonderful outlet for creativity, sexuality and playfulness work. Same goes for signs of appreciation, positive feedback, not beeing judged for displaying a firm of sexuality...

It doesn't "lead" to anything in real life, it just adds/compensates for something I miss in real life.
 
Responding to MissLed’s question......

I just appreciate the beauty that you ladies exhibit. And you are all beautiful Goddesses. Your confidence and comfort with yourselves... is something I wished I possessed.
Thank you ladies..... you bring smiles to our faces and brighten all our days.
:)
 
Thalassa said:
How true to your non-online personality is your fcn persona?

Is it easier being a certain version of yourself here, that you cannot be 'out there'?
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Good question. I think I change or adapt dependant on the environment. If it's work I tend to duck and dive (due to the abundance of cretins there, especially in management plus I have a manager who I know is actively trying to get me the sack) but with mates I am as I am here on FCN. With family, a bit more watered down version and with a certain family member, well I become an absolute angel. I think I'm everything I am but choose to filter how I am depending on where or who I am with.
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
What makes you feel manly/like even more of a man (if that's possible?!)?
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Doing the dishes, vacuuming, cleaning, laundry, etc. I'm half joking there, I really do think it's housework is manly though...

The only thing I can really think of is looking at myself in the mirror, the way my shoulders and arms look ..my beard/body hair, my dangly bits. I'm not really one who needs to feel manly, we're all people, different people, each with our own positives and negatives, I don't believe being more manly is required for any reason...I just am who I am. I'm a white heterosexual male...I don't care if I'm manly or not,as long as I know who I am, fuck everything else.
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
What makes you feel manly/like even more of a man (if that's possible?!)?
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That question really made me think actually.

I had 2 thoughts:

1) If you can/could do things to feel more "manly", it would mean you can/could do things to feel more feminine. And there simply is nothing that comes to my mind. I can only think of clichés such as doing laundry or go shopping. Do I feel feminine when I do those? Clearly: no.

2) after a deeper reflexion, I would say I probably feel more manly when I assert my dominance. Not/never aggressively but by exuding confidence in the little things. A few examples: walk/sit straight(er) . Have a firm handshake (that was pre covid19 :confused: - which is different from squeezing btw). Look people in the eye when you adress them. Put some effort in wearing clothes that fit properly. Or of course playing with her body in bed ;). There are many more.
 
Kbunny said:
Have you tasted your own cum? Why and what did you think? I think it's more common for a female to do, although I really only do it as a turn on for someone else. A couple of my male friends said they did it purely out of curiosity.
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Hahaha... I did that...
 
Someguy1323 said:
Doing the dishes, vacuuming, cleaning, laundry, etc. I'm half joking there, I really do think it's housework is manly though...

The only thing I can really think of is looking at myself in the mirror, the way my shoulders and arms look ..my beard/body hair, my dangly bits. I'm not really one who needs to feel manly, we're all people, different people, each with our own positives and negatives, I don't believe being more manly is required for any reason...I just am who I am. I'm a white heterosexual male...I don't care if I'm manly or not,as long as I know who I am, fuck everything else.
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Applauds loudly! Maybe I should have left the second part out but thank you for this responce, for being you and cheers! :)

Shout out to @Slopps too - appreciate your input!
 
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