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SubSoph said:
During sex, do you prefer things light and subtle? Or is it the complete opposite, meaning you like enjoying the movements rough/rigid with your partner? An in between or both, maybe?

And another question..

Do you like using sex toys on a partner during sex? Why or why not?
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#1, I like where it starts light and subtle and then depending where our moods our, a little roughness; hair pulling, spanking, scratching, etc. is always good.

#2 If she wants me to use them then I don't have a problem doing so. My number one thing is to always makes sure her pleasure comes first and then mine. But that's just me.
 
SubSoph said:
During sex, do you prefer things light and subtle? Or is it the complete opposite, meaning you like enjoying the movements rough/rigid with your partner? An in between or both, maybe?

And another question..

Do you like using sex toys on a partner during sex? Why or why not?
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I like almost everything. Bondage, followed by light touches, spanking, hair pulling, choking, toys. I have recently purchased some rope as well. I like to see her enjoying herself and moving however she likes. I will use everything at my disposal to make her squirm. Lol
The only thing I would not enjoy is if she does not move or make any sounds.
I hope this helps.
 
SubSoph said:
During sex, do you prefer things light and subtle? Or is it the complete opposite, meaning you like enjoying the movements rough/rigid with your partner? An in between or both, maybe?

And another question..

Do you like using sex toys on a partner during sex? Why or why not?
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Usually starting off a bit subtle, eye contact and petting. Then a little biting and sucking gets me more turned on. Then gradually getting more and more intense with some squeezing and spanking her, a good amount of oral play, until we can’t stand the build-up anymore, and we just go for it, hard and fast.

Most of the time I prefer to save toys for the end, if at all, as I like to make it last as long as possible for both of us.
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
What makes you feel manly?
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Yardwork sometimes, house work (vacuuming, dusting, doing dishes) at times, and fixing stuff. Now with that being said I can't fix stuff worth a damn.

Hot, passionate and rough sex makes me feel manly. Moving my palms all over her body, pulling her hair, grabbing her ass, pinning her down with my body... definitely makes me feel manly. It's not knowing I could do any of those things to and with her, it's knowing she wants me to do those things that make me feel manly.
 
SubSoph said:
During sex, do you prefer things light and subtle? Or is it the complete opposite, meaning you like enjoying the movements rough/rigid with your partner? An in between or both, maybe?
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Somewhat both... There are times where light, sweet, and subtle is what we both want and need. Those little kisses, gentle touches, playing with her hair, taking things slow can really be pleasurable. Sometimes it can even lead to more intense and passionate sex.

With that being said... My preference is more on the rough, wild, and somewhat kinky side. I rather enjoy yanking her hair, restraining her with rope at times, pinning her down with my body, andsand her ass with my hand or belt. Also feeling her nails dig into me and her fingers tugging on my hair is glorious. A little biting too, damn straight.


SubSoph said:
Do you like using sex toys on a partner during sex? Why or why not?
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I like using toys on her during foreplay. Not necessarily all the time, but using a vibrator, for example, can be a fun way to tease her and myself, getting us both even more aroused in the process. The higher our arousal will lead to more intense and passionate, pleasurable sex once we get to that point.
 
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If I'm horny, it doesn't matter. I would prefer if it was a little clean. I'm sure some women wouldn't want to go down on me if sweaty.
I'm more concerned about licking little pieces of toilet paper that get stuck down there.
 
Hotcarter76 said:
If I'm horny, it doesn't matter. I would prefer if it was a little clean. I'm sure some women wouldn't want to go down on me if sweaty.
I'm more concerned about licking little pieces of toilet paper that get stuck down there.
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Lol that made me laugh a little. Thank you for answering.
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
What makes you feel manly?
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Being comfortable enough with myself to be vulnerable. Allowing myself the leniency to be "weak" sometimes. There's so much power in letting those walls down and trusting someone. Also talking to other men to let them know that it is indeed manly to feel emotions. Not just feel them, but feel them strongly. I've lost many years of my young adult life trying to fit a mold that is highly toxic. Also my pineapple coconut deodorant, and watching myself cum 3 ft after edging for a few hours. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

SubSoph said:
During sex, do you prefer things light and subtle? Or is it the complete opposite, meaning you like enjoying the movements rough/rigid with your partner? An in between or both, maybe?

And another question..

Do you like using sex toys on a partner during sex? Why or why not?
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It really depends on the partner and what she prefers too. I'm a giver/pleaser so I'm willing to do what makes her feel good and wanted. Hard and rigid is really nice in a lot of situations. However, a tender touch can go a long way, and if done in a drawn out way can be very erotic and lovely.

Question two. I have never been with a partner that has brought toys into the fold. I can't imagine not enjoying it though and am definitely interested in trying.

Great questions @PheonixxxMonroe and @SubSoph ❤️
 
Kbunny said:
How do you feel about going down on a woman after a good workout? Sweaty and all that fun stuff.
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Although one of my favorite things....it really depends, assuming she showered sometime recently, and didn't have 3 days of workout funk going, I'd probably be ok with it...but just like most women (yeah an assumption) I don't want to recoil when removing clothing. Now if it was "hey, I showered, worked out, get to work on me and we can shower and fuck more"....yeah, I'm game.
 
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