Fantastic ladies of FCN, what do you typically enjoy doing after you have sex with your partner? I realize it may be different things at times, but just looking for what you usually enjoy doing after you have sex.
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Thalassa
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Usually we bask in post-orgasmic highs with a few rounds of backgammon. Then we make ourselves a big meal that we share on the roof terrace. When that's done, we get into the jacuzzi with a cheesecake wheel each. By then it's morning.
Truthful but boring answer:
Talk, cuddle-sleep (more often the latter).
Be there when I'm sick
Depends on the partner and what time of the day it was. Usually I went to bed afterwards unless it was during the day then i'd continue my daytime activities.
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xDawnBBW
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Husband almost always passes out or plays on his phone at right after.. We used to cuddle and joke around afterwards. Not anymore ♡
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Still_Waters
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This^
Very rare I’ve been with anyone where this hasn’t been the scenario
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xDawnBBW
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Not saying I'm happy you experience this.. but good to know I'm not alone. Haha. It truly sucks and I'm sensitive and take it personally
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Anonymous_boi
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You can have him in your arms and shower with love he will definitely try to not pass or go elsewhere..Not saying I'm happy you experience this.. but good to know I'm not alone. Haha. It truly sucks and I'm sensitive and take it personally
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Still_Waters
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I agree! Not happy you go through it either but at least we know it’s THEIR problem and not us!Not saying I'm happy you experience this.. but good to know I'm not alone. Haha. It truly sucks and I'm sensitive and take it personally
For me it's definitely cuddling!
Nothing feels better than cuddling and little kisses after making love to the girl/boy I love!
Wonderful ladies of FCN, I'm determined to keep this thread going, but only with your help. Two questions for any lady who doesn't mind answering...
1. What personality trait of yours have you found to be more important as you've grown up?
2. Does it matter to you if you or your partner initiates sex? Why or why not?
1. What personality trait of yours have you found to be more important as you've grown up?
2. Does it matter to you if you or your partner initiates sex? Why or why not?
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Thalassa
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Being sociable. I prefer being by myself or within a small circle of friends that I consider to be good people and aligned to a certain extent with my values. However my stronger predilection is to spend time with myself. I don't have to deal with the nonsense or waste of time that comes with some social interactions/ people. (As an aperçu, the beginning months of the pandemic, when strict lockdowns and urges to not socialize were in effect, I didn't really miss being with people for many many months...)
Small talk is something I have no interest in and did not engage in while growing up and into a early adult years. However, I learnt that in order to further oneself in life, personally and professionally, gregariousness and sharing of one's thoughts (to an extent) or life issues (still not something I can / would normally do), is the name of the game. So I've learnt how to do that. I can be extroverted and engage in meaningless conversations when the setting calls for it.
(Did I answer your question? Or did I interpret it the wrong way?)
My preference is for him to initiate it.
1. My sex drive is at fairly 'normal' levels, definitely not high as some people here exhibit. So physically I don't need sex frequently. I'm kind of a sex camel. (Note - I make a distinction between sex and physical touch/ affection. The latter is very important to me and I require it daily).
2. I think that one of the ways I naturally express submission is for him to get what he wants when he wants, and not impose it, should it not be the right time / circumstances. Regardless of point #1, he can have me whenever he desires.
3. I also suspect that my conservative upbringing has me wired to not seek involved naked encounters. It's just not how a lady behaves.
1) Mule-headed stubborn obstinacy (disguised as laser-like focus..).
2) I'm not thinking about such irrelevant details when having sex.
Hi ladies...
Thinking of giving this as a surprise pressie to SO...
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Any thoughts...?
Thinking of giving this as a surprise pressie to SO...
https://www.etsy.com/ie/listing/970...ss&ref=sr_gallery-3-15&organic_search_click=1
Any thoughts...?
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Thalassa
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Looks pretty!
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LillyK
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I don't have a partner atm so it just depends on the other person... usually clean up or shower after. Tbh if I have the time I like to lounge around naked afterwards with him to rest for round 2... or 3. And I really like cuddling together, eating a meal together, or just going about our day. When I was married we had sex anywhere from every day to one a week on average and the important part is to make it a priority which means fitting time in for sex regardless of how busy you are (it's always worth it)
Trying to revive this thread... Ladies, how do you communicate what you like, really like, and don't like during foreplay and sex? Verbally, facial expressions,discussing it beforehand, or something else entirely?
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LillyK
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All of the above! I enjoy talking about sex casually which can be helpful. I used to send my ex articles as well as read things to him or share what I learned. He was uncomfortable at times with talking about sex (no idea why lol but I definitely made up for the difference
). I didn't exactly know what I wanted at times but I'm a communicator and I think it makes sex more enjoyable for everyone when you practice talking about it (you'll eventually be more comfortable with it)
Without going too much into this, I am very particular and prefer having a discussion beforehand. It doesn't mean things don't get discussed after / during. It's a combination of all three. But I don't walk into new experiences without having a discussion first and with new partners I don't just have sex with them. I talk about it first to see if we're even compatible.
