Banter Let’s just talk!

So this seems to be a good debate! Coffee or no?

  • Coffee

    Votes: 20 80.0%

  • Other

    Votes: 5 20.0%
  • Total voters
    25
  • Poll closed .
TheDudeAbides89 said:
So, I am here in a rather limited capacity. Not doing much in threads. Have almost left FCN a couple of times. Mostly feeling sorry for myself. Thing is, I don’t have any real close friends in real life. So I came here hoping to make one. I have made some good friends here. Really good people. But I long for closeness with someone, you know? Someone you just have to talk to daily, or you miss them terribly. I make friends with women easier, which is why I came here.

So I have found that in order to stay here, I need to adjust my expectations. It was painful to be here and still not have that special connection. Felt like just another place to feel lonely. I already have that, why have it here? If it were not for the good people I have met who don’t want me leaving, I could go easily. The threads are not fun for me, generally. I can play here and there, but it is not the draw. But if I can stop looking and longing for that connection, maybe playing is fun again. Not sure if anyone else feels that or ever has. But anyway, have a good day.
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I don't have many friends in real life, either. Most of my friends are old friends from days gone by. I also came here looking to make new friends, but not necessarily just one special one. I have met some good people here, but often still feel lonely. I know my quiet personality is part of the reason as I am not really good at small talk.
 
Brunette_ said:
Well thank you. I'll pop in and "lurk" occasionally haha.
You seem pretty chill from your posts/interactions. Have a great week if I don't come back here.
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The lyric “Baby come back! You can blame it all on me!” flew through my brain when I read this. :p But yeah girl go ahead and lurk your heart out!
 
Corsair48 said:
I don't have many friends in real life, either. Most of my friends are old friends from days gone by. I also came here looking to make new friends, but not necessarily just one special one. I have met some good people here, but often still feel lonely. I know my quiet personality is part of the reason as I am not really good at small talk.
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Hey glad you found the thread! Luckily so far we have some really great people in here! If you just @ them and strike a conversation most of them should reply and before you know it you’ll have a few more friends in no time! Btw nice to meet you! :D
 
RF587 said:
Talk is cheap because actions speak louder than words.
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Hey man I’ve seen you around the threads! And I agree to some extent on your quote. I believe that if all you can do is talk and can’t provide an action then doing nothing is cheap but doing whatever you can is a large gesture and shows your care and worth! Not everyone has the same abilities as others! But glad you jumped in the thread I’m glad to have you here! ;)
 
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