Having a filter when I go on a bipolar rampage
I appear to have lost something amazing because of it
I appear to have lost something amazing because of it
My insecurities... My need to know that everything still is fine. Driving me crazy sometimes
I know what you mean but on the flip side if you chart your moods and thoughts you will soon find that you have gained strengthHaving a filter when I go on a bipolar rampage
...Mental Strength
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LillyK
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❤Having a filter when I go on a bipolar rampage
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LillyK
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Who was the last person you wrote a letter to?
Oh boy....it was a while ago, but I had a friend from college who moved to new York after we finished. She ended up marrying a friend I worked with, by pure coincidence, as I didn't introduce them....I was just shocked when I saw her at a work party of mine...anyway, they moved to new new and we wrote each other letters for a couple of years, just stuff about our lives etc. But I haven't written or received one in probably 10 years now. I know she's divorced, so I don't even know where she lives anymore....but I could find her I'm sure, I'm good at finding stuff....
Myself believe it ir not! It was motivational as all fuck and thanks cause this has made me remember and wanna revisit it more often!
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LillyK
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That's a great idea! I decorated my walls in inspiration when I was pregnant with my first son. It's been a while lol
My NOTES ap in my phone is a crazy place of organised random chaos and it all makes perfect sense to me but would either have me deemed mentally unstable or a lyrical genius if ever found and shared!! 
hehe it's a fine line!!
hehe it's a fine line!!
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LillyK
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I sat down and wrote a letter to my grandma after I posted that question. My mom still sends me hands written letters and I send them occasionally but not as often as I like to. I think there's something special about it when someone takes the time to do that. It shows more about someone reading their hand writing than just a text message. It's more personal. I had my teenage son write me a letter a few weeks ago because he was angry. There's something special that happens between the pen and paper that doesn't happen between the mind and the mouth. It's healing.
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LillyK
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What's your favorite physical trait as well as personality trait/habit of your (future/present/past) SO?
Is it odd that I don't think I have a favorite physical trait? I can't think of a singular thing that physically I was like yup, that's what did it for me....ok, maybe the fact all my significant others had at least one vagina( One had uterus didelphys) ....
For personality, its a little easier, but still a combination, intelligence, compassion, humor, love language are all really important.
I'm interested to hear what others think though...
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UnsaintedCali
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If I have to tap into my shallow side, thighs... Hence why I made the thighs thread.
More importantly, and bouncing off Someguy said, compassion and humor have always captured my attention. Also sight. I don't mean eye sight, I mean the ability to see potential in others and having the capacity to help build them up. I never used to be this confident, but she always told me that I am more than I think I am. That self doubt came from very difficult experiences, but that sight gave me the ability to see the real strength I had.
That leads into patience, because if you know me at all, I am stupid complicated. Patience is paramount because I know I can be a handful sometimes. I'm not always easy to understand.
Lastly, honesty. I need to know that what I'm hearing is sincere. That is just from gut feelings and absolute trust.
As a side note, I really wish I knew what love language was when I was younger...that is reaaaally usefully as well.
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UnsaintedCali
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Might wanna read the prompt again good sir...
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SHM1969
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Sorry chief. Thanks for pointing out
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SHM1969
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Try again. Favourite physical trait would be legs. A nice set of pins always gets me going. Thighs especially. And eyes. A never set of eyes to look into. And smile. Love to see a woman smile (or make them smile)
Personality. Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and has a good sense of humour. I like a laugh. They would need to as well
Personality. Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and has a good sense of humour. I like a laugh. They would need to as well
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LillyK
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Physically... the more I think about it height is really important since I'm almost 5'9. But Idk if it's my favourite thing. Im a sucker for pretty eyes and big hands.
The older I get the more I realize that physical traits are always trumped by who someone is inside. For me the things that draw me in are humor, kindness & thoughtfulness.
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SHM1969
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I would agree with thatPhysically... the more I think about it height is really important since I'm almost 5'9. But Idk if it's my favourite thing. Im a sucker for pretty eyes and big hands.
The older I get the more I realize that physical traits are always trumped by who someone is inside. For me the things that draw me in are humor, kindness & thoughtfulness.