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ExperiencedDominantMale
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What characteristics do you find sexy in a Dom/Sub?
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ExperiencedDominantMale
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I love this. A true Dom is always well aware that the sub holds the power, her submission is the greatest gift she gives
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ExperiencedDominantMale
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Lmao! I should of known you was going to pop up somewhere you dominant dom dom
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Thalassa
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They own lots of leather wear and love buying leather for their subs. Who doesn't want a rich, gorgeous selection of leather clothes to go with their Harley?
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ExperiencedDominantMale
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Lol well that’s one way to put it huh...although I’m quite certain there’s a lot more to it than that
Their ability to actually listen, their communication skills in general, and the ability to read body language. But I also expect this from my S/O.
Dom's are merely posers, as are subs. They are in real life, the opposite of what they are in BDSM. This is the only way they can find a way to be what they can't be in their daily real life.
I was laughing at those who call themselves Domme's here. smh Keep dreaming, it's nice to have a dream. lol
As for the fantasy Dom's, I would say nothing is sexy about someone who enjoys inflicting pain on anyone, and don't give me attitude that it's their choice. It's unhealthy behavior, IMO!
I was laughing at those who call themselves Domme's here. smh Keep dreaming, it's nice to have a dream. lol
As for the fantasy Dom's, I would say nothing is sexy about someone who enjoys inflicting pain on anyone, and don't give me attitude that it's their choice. It's unhealthy behavior, IMO!
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SubSoph
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LMFAO. "Fantasy Doms," as if they are not real people. Posers? Please. Its preference, and its not just a lifestyle. Alongside, "inflicting pain on others" is not what BDSM is, bebe. It can be apart of it, sure. But like I said, preference. BDSM is more than just sex. Much more than that. You crack me the fuck up, love the TM at the end.. nice little touch!Dom's are merely posers, as are subs. They are in real life, the opposite of what they are in BDSM. This is the only way they can find a way to be what they can't be in their daily real life.
I was laughing at those who call themselves Domme's here. smh Keep dreaming, it's nice to have a dream. lol
As for the fantasy Dom's, I would say nothing is sexy about someone who enjoys inflicting pain on anyone, and don't give me attitude that it's their choice. It's unhealthy behavior, IMO!
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Dom's are merely posers, as are subs. They are in real life, the opposite of what they are in BDSM. This is the only way they can find a way to be what they can't be in their daily real life.
I was laughing at those who call themselves Domme's here. smh Keep dreaming, it's nice to have a dream. lol
As for the fantasy Dom's, I would say nothing is sexy about someone who enjoys inflicting pain on anyone, and don't give me attitude that it's their choice. It's unhealthy behavior, IMO!
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Uhhhh? That's not representative of the bdsm community at all especially chat doms. Chat doms are in their own special category of bdsm which I don't even consider real bdsm because they aren't real, and they don't understand what real bdsm is. On chat it's also easy to show a fantasy version of yourself. You only want to show what you want people to see and some people make up a version of themselves which has nothing to do in real life. Some people want to act out their fantasy which includes bdsm. Lots of people, due to constraints in their real life, cannot do real bdsm and come here to get their fill of the fantasy for bdsm, which isn't a bad thing. I don't think they are posers simply because they have a complicated real life which stops them from pursuing real bdsm.
As for the inflicting pain on people... there is nothing sexy about people who immediately shove their fantasy and fetishes upon other people without the other person's consent. There are a lot of doms who act as though everyone is their sub, or they approach subs as though they are their subs and start ordering them around as though everything has already been established which is not how it works in real bdsm. You shouldn't ever approach other subs like you own them already. Sadism and masochism can be a normal fetish if done consensually between each party and is a normal practice in the bdsm community and I have no idea what you mean by attitude and "their choice"