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It funny how I have been trying to sort my life out recently and finally understand where I have been going wrong. Focusing on the bad things instead of the positive, feeling sorry for myself, and just plain hurting a lot. Now I am looking to just enjoy what I do have and hopefully the negative will sort itself out I time.

Thank you J for you advice :)
 
my life is very complicated these days and it's throwing many challenges my way. what stresses and hurts the most is when the people you thought were true friends after so many years turn on you because they never were a true friend. you listened, encouraged, and loved them to your own detriment at times, and they are not capable of nor want to reciprocate. it hurts and numbs the physical being and soul to learn that you never mattered or were truly seen or heard by them. they can easily say the words friend and i love you as easily as they mock you and gossip with strangers about you and not bat an eye. for them it's about the superficial, the cruel, and the vapid, and don't want a true connections at least not with you because you ask for realness. it just shocks the system and hurts the heart to know i could have been so wrong and placed my trust and heart in the wrong person.

i am a survivor from a long line of survivors and this too will pass. hurts, but will pass
 
Bennettrose said:
my life is very complicated these days and it's throwing many challenges my way. what stresses and hurts the most is when the people you thought were true friends after so many years turn on you because they never were a true friend. you listened, encouraged, and loved them to your own detriment at times, and they are not capable of nor want to reciprocate. it hurts and numbs the physical being and soul to learn that you never mattered or were truly seen or heard by them. they can easily say the words friend and i love you as easily as they mock you and gossip with strangers about you and not bat an eye. for them it's about the superficial, the cruel, and the vapid, and don't want a true connections at least not with you because you ask for realness. it just shocks the system and hurts the heart to know i could have been so wrong and placed my trust and heart in the wrong person.

i am a survivor from a long line of survivors and this too will pass. hurts, but will pass
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Miss, I feel your pain and understand exactly what you are saying. There were people who I classed as close friends the vanished like smoke when my last relationship broke down and i was at my very lowest.
I think I have already posted this thought, but sometimes your closest friends are the ones furthest away.
 
Bennettrose said:
my life is very complicated these days and it's throwing many challenges my way. what stresses and hurts the most is when the people you thought were true friends after so many years turn on you because they never were a true friend. you listened, encouraged, and loved them to your own detriment at times, and they are not capable of nor want to reciprocate. it hurts and numbs the physical being and soul to learn that you never mattered or were truly seen or heard by them. they can easily say the words friend and i love you as easily as they mock you and gossip with strangers about you and not bat an eye. for them it's about the superficial, the cruel, and the vapid, and don't want a true connections at least not with you because you ask for realness. it just shocks the system and hurts the heart to know i could have been so wrong and placed my trust and heart in the wrong person.

i am a survivor from a long line of survivors and this too will pass. hurts, but will pass
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People suck sometimes. I feel like I've become such a different version of myself over the years because of it but I believe we can rise above it. Big hugs to you ❤
 
LillyK99 said:
People suck sometimes. I feel like I've become such a different version of myself over the years because of it but I believe we can rise above it. Big hugs to you ❤
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thank you, i am devastated right now. i made such a mistake and it truly hurts. when you spend so many years getting to know someone here and genuinely cared to find out you're nobody to them and what they really think of you when you're already down is jarring.
 
BadGirl45 said:
Miss, I feel your pain and understand exactly what you are saying. There were people who I classed as close friends the vanished like smoke when my last relationship broke down and i was at my very lowest.
I think I have already posted this thought, but sometimes your closest friends are the ones furthest away.
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thank you, i was told it comes with being a chatter. don't expect a real connections with one because that is not what they are here for. nice right? :)
 
Bennettrose said:
thank you, i am devastated right now. i made such a mistake and it truly hurts. when you spend so many years getting to know someone here and genuinely cared to find out you're nobody to them and what they really think of you when you're already down is jarring.
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I've never had that happen online, but most definitely irl ❤
 
Bennettrose said:
it's one of the reasons i am quiet and not very carefree. you lose trust in people over time and a lot of times i think they are only going to disappoint or hurt me. this time i was right. the thing i do know about you and me and so many others is we are strong women who get back up and keep it moving. thank god! lol
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That's a natural response, which I'm sure you know. You are a beautiful person.
 
The day when people realize how important respect is, the world will become a better place. The day when people here realize they are dealing with different cultures, traditions, races, and religions they will also be more mindful of what they say and how. If you have respect for people, feelings etc and are decent then it will happen quite automatically then you will be considerate with your words and actions. Respect is really the key to many things. The world will be so much better if you first think before you speak or post anything.
 
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