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I'm so grateful for this job I've had for the past 15 months. It's the most diverse workplace I've ever had in regards to gender identity/orientation. To have a group of people that respect everyone and work together to respect others' pronouns, beliefs & viewpoints has been such a blessing to me. I'm gonna miss the hell out of them all ❤️ I worked with this 18 year old girl tonight. She's the sweetest, so soft spoken, and rocks her beautiful fro :p Definitely need to visit them!
 
Until recently (I’d say the past couple of years), I had a tendency to feel like I had to fight for everything and it made me sort of spiteful towards others doing their thing.

I spotted the bad trait in me, and removed it. Negative energy brings negative energy.
 
AD_ said:
Until recently (I’d say the past couple of years), I had a tendency to feel like I had to fight for everything and it made me sort of spiteful towards others doing their thing.

I spotted the bad trait in me, and removed it. Negative energy brings negative energy.
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Good for you sweetheart ❤️
 
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It's important to know the difference between mental health issues and toxic behavior. They are two separate things. It takes a strong person, not easily offended to love someone with mental health issues. I have a dear friend who is bipolar and she gets me. She's one of my favorite people. She's encouraging, non judgemental and I never have to hear the stupid shit other people say when they try to fix me. She's bubbly, positive, and so fucking hilarious. She has a lisp but somehow makes it sexy!! She was supposed to hear me tell my story last month and never showed. I've left her several voice messages, texts, etc. I knew what it was so I prayed, gave her space, and would leave her another message every so often. She's ok, on the mend. She sent out a big message to everyone on social media about what's going on. We all need friends that don't try to fix us, just love us unconditionally. That's what she's done for me so it's easy. But it makes me think about everyone else out there suffering... Check in on them and don't be offended if they don't respond or if they're honest and tell you what they're feeling. It's not a choice.
 
LillyK said:
It's important to know the difference between mental health issues and toxic behavior. They are two separate things. It takes a strong person, not easily offended to love someone with mental health issues. I have a dear friend who is bipolar and she gets me. She's one of my favorite people. She's encouraging, non judgemental and I never have to hear the stupid shit other people say when they try to fix me. She's bubbly, positive, and so fucking hilarious. She has a lisp but somehow makes it sexy!! She was supposed to hear me tell my story last month and never showed. I've left her several voice messages, texts, etc. I knew what it was so I prayed, gave her space, and would leave her another message every so often. She's ok, on the mend. She sent out a big message to everyone on social media about what's going on. We all need friends that don't try to fix us, just love us unconditionally. That's what she's done for me so it's easy. But it makes me think about everyone else out there suffering... Check in on them and don't be offended if they don't respond or if they're honest and tell you what they're feeling. It's not a choice.
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LillyK said:
It's important to know the difference between mental health issues and toxic behavior. They are two separate things. It takes a strong person, not easily offended to love someone with mental health issues. I have a dear friend who is bipolar and she gets me. She's one of my favorite people. She's encouraging, non judgemental and I never have to hear the stupid shit other people say when they try to fix me. She's bubbly, positive, and so fucking hilarious. She has a lisp but somehow makes it sexy!! She was supposed to hear me tell my story last month and never showed. I've left her several voice messages, texts, etc. I knew what it was so I prayed, gave her space, and would leave her another message every so often. She's ok, on the mend. She sent out a big message to everyone on social media about what's going on. We all need friends that don't try to fix us, just love us unconditionally. That's what she's done for me so it's easy. But it makes me think about everyone else out there suffering... Check in on them and don't be offended if they don't respond or if they're honest and tell you what they're feeling. It's not a choice.
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I have two best friends who never judge me and love me unconditionally and it's a great thing to have for sure. They're non fcn people though. I never made a connection that strong with anyone on fcn tbh.
 
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