Your first line and your last line contradict each other.
Seems like you might have changed during these paragraphs
I totally understand what you're saying with things Stan and to a certain degree they do not. Pedo'd and abusers will never change. But the ones like me who have bee n victimized by them and are working hard to change who I was and have become a different person and have been humbled by things that have happened to me. People like me, a volatile person like who I was, yes I admit I was volatile and I hurt people because I was hurting and that's no excuse. But people like me, who have received help and have healed and are always healing do change. So in my eyes some people do change. I think I have been through enough hell in my life and really just want to live in peace. I have hurt people and i know I have. I do not remember things I said in my hellacious days but I have been told and feel horrible and sad. I will never be able to take stuff back or undo what I said and did and saying that I can change who I am and who I trust in the future and change what I do. I can heal. Victims become survivors. So I am not saying the horrible people ike really bad people change but I do believe some do
Seems like you might have missed where I compared your first and last line
I don't think we're defining "change" the same way. I was referring to human behavior, so was she. I'm not sure what you're doing, tbh. Why are you even doing this?Seems like you might have missed where I compared your first and last line
Not trying to change the reality. Just raising the fact that in your own response, you changed from "none" to "if any"
Change can happen
That's not even relevant to long-term social behavior. Are you bored?
So part of your personality sometimes matches mine? If you see that behavior in me as a problem, then you have a problem.
But you did. There's no going back now.Oh I wouldn't go that far
if you got it
That's another sort of problem.
