Thoughts Post your little thoughts.
But I was told its all performative bullshit and attention seeking by the powers that be
Vulnerability does not equate to weakness, it requires strength and trust. Some of the strongest people I know will be vulnerable to those that they trust. Vulnerability allows one to heal, grow and become even stronger! I’ve seen it happen firsthand and it’s a beautiful thing! IYKYK 
Evenings and weekends, which is how most of us still do it
In my defense, i do not exactly have a 9 to 5 job... It's a how I "beat the system" and it feels like i get at least a little bit even for the soul sucking the company i work for
(And i don't clean my bathroom that much
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If you don't like to clean, hire cleaning service once per week.
Everything is too expensive
It's a part of you
Its easier to be yourself with some anonymity
Pondering and thinking out loud...Anyone who posts is looking for attention. Isn't that the whole point of a chat site? Regulars in a forum have made friends, and as social creatures, we typicaly want to make sure our friends are ok. In general, can some want more attention than others? Sure! But does that make it wrong? No! It is part of the human social dynamics. We all have our battles and triumphs and wants and needs.
Stay human you beautiful people.
Nothing tests a friendship like choosing where to eat.
Update: Bugs me bro, but the good thing is that you don't do it intentionally.
Not trying to diagnose you here, because who am I? Lol.
But have you ever considered imposter syndrome? Even if just fleeting moments. It's quite common under high achievers and perfectionists. It can help to talk about it with others, especially peers or even mentors or a coach to see that what you perceive as pretending or fake, may actually be more real than you realise. That your achievements aren't just luck or good acting, but you are actually good at what you do. I've had this feeling for many years, but it helps to talk about it and to have people mirror you back to you. For me it links into perfectionism and a fear of not being good enough or smart enough. Never as good as someone else. And having BDD doesn't help matters on another front. What can also help is writing down things you are proud of. Actual achievements when you do recognise them and break them down. Like stop saying aloud that "someone taught you something". It's your knowledge now. You gained it. You did that. For example. And lastly. Your inner voice your harshest critic. Speak to yourself like you would a friend. Uplifting, positive and with a little pride.
Anyway, maybe totally off base and rambled, but popped into my head and I blabber
This is still very much a learning curve for me too. None of us really know what we're doing, imo. It's not like life came with a neat little manual.
Perfectionism isn't something I suffer from. like at all. Really.Not trying to diagnose you here, because who am I? Lol.
But have you ever considered imposter syndrome? Even if just fleeting moments. It's quite common under high achievers and perfectionists. It can help to talk about it with others, especially peers or even mentors or a coach to see that what you perceive as pretending or fake, may actually be more real than you realise. That your achievements aren't just luck or good acting, but you are actually good at what you do. I've had this feeling for many years, but it helps to talk about it and to have people mirror you back to you. For me it links into perfectionism and a fear of not being good enough or smart enough. Never as good as someone else. And having BDD doesn't help matters on another front. What can also help is writing down things you are proud of. Actual achievements when you do recognise them and break them down. Like stop saying aloud that "someone taught you something". It's your knowledge now. You gained it. You did that. For example. And lastly. Your inner voice your harshest critic. Speak to yourself like you would a friend. Uplifting, positive and with a little pride.
Anyway, maybe totally off base and rambled, but popped into my head and I blabber
This is still very much a learning curve for me too. None of us really know what we're doing, imo. It's not like life came with a neat little manual.
Thanks thoug ... And send me copy of the manual if you happen to find it after all
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But not my Saint Valentine
He was beheaded by
Claudius II Gothicus
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But not my Saint Valentine
He was beheaded by
Claudius II Gothicus
x"
