Banter Random Facts About Yourself

Think I’ve been here about a year and a half and I’ve never felt like I fit in at all…I’m just that girl who pops into a few threads says something and goes (oh and probably annoying) ….i have a couple of people here I would call friends and that’s the same as real life….oh so the random fact is linked to this lol ….im terrible in a crowd ….im fine with 1-3 people but anymore and I freeze and pull back cos I don’t feel witty or funny or what I have to say has any worth…..that is the same with the threads (see told you it was all linked) if I go in or am in a thread and people are replying to it quickly and a few people are doing it I pull out ….sometimes I try but it’s not easy

No idea if any of that makes sense ….dont ask me to try to explain again cos that’s a lot of writing lol

If you’re still awake after reading all that then well done ….gold star for you lol ⭐️
 
Amelia24 said:
Think I’ve been here about a year and a half and I’ve never felt like I fit in at all…I’m just that girl who pops into a few threads says something and goes (oh and probably annoying) ….i have a couple of people here I would call friends and that’s the same as real life….oh so the random fact is linked to this lol ….im terrible in a crowd ….im fine with 1-3 people but anymore and I freeze and pull back cos I don’t feel witty or funny or what I have to say has any worth…..that is the same with the threads (see told you it was all linked) if I go in or am in a thread and people are replying to it quickly and a few people are doing it I pull out ….sometimes I try but it’s not easy

No idea if any of that makes sense ….dont ask me to try to explain again cos that’s a lot of writing lol

If you’re still awake after reading all that then well done ….gold star for you lol ⭐️
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I fell like this is what I would write almost exactly. Lol. The only thing I’d add is I do weirdly well in really large crowds (concerts, sporting events, visiting Times Square, etc) like I can get lost in the crowd and the noise and commotion give me some weird sense of calm.
 
Amelia24 said:
Think I’ve been here about a year and a half and I’ve never felt like I fit in at all…I’m just that girl who pops into a few threads says something and goes (oh and probably annoying) ….i have a couple of people here I would call friends and that’s the same as real life….oh so the random fact is linked to this lol ….im terrible in a crowd ….im fine with 1-3 people but anymore and I freeze and pull back cos I don’t feel witty or funny or what I have to say has any worth…..that is the same with the threads (see told you it was all linked) if I go in or am in a thread and people are replying to it quickly and a few people are doing it I pull out ….sometimes I try but it’s not easy

No idea if any of that makes sense ….dont ask me to try to explain again cos that’s a lot of writing lol

If you’re still awake after reading all that then well done ….gold star for you lol ⭐️
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You don't need to have constant interactions to "fit in." It's not normal for 100% of humans to be mostly extroverted.

Some are after only certain types of interactions, some mesh with only certain types of personalities, some have bursts of need for social interactions, some are random af for various reasons.

Many people initiate profile delete process because they "don't fit in," only to interrupt it. Some do that multiple times. Some go through with the process only later to create a new profile, because they suddenly want to interact with people again.

You'll have ups and downs. Having ups ALL THE TIME is fkng weird af.
 
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