Thoughts RATED-X : let's talk about SEX!

It's for everything SEX-X-X ABOUT YOU.

- random sex facts about sexy you
- sexual experiences
- sexual thoughts
- the things mind keeps hidden but really just wants to share it somewhere
- let your penis, pussy or other orifices tell us what they want /need

LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX, BABY!

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Hey let's fuck
 
I've never done 1-night stands nor will I. I too like a connection even though I am not interested in anything long-term.

I am honest though. I tell guys straight away (1st date usually), 'Look, if you are thinking 'long-term' with regards me, don't. I'm a single with occasional bouts of being exclusive with 1 man for a limited time. I like to know the day it will end almost from the beginning. Then its his choice, stay if acceptable, leave if not.

My lifestyle/career isn't conducive to relationships.

Ls x
 
I never before have experienced any ass play before this year....I like it, it's a great thing to add into the playbook to keep things entertaining. I still have my favorites and they still don't involve my or her ass...but I'm more than ok with whatever!
 
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I lost my virginity to a porn star. True story.
Can you say more about this? How did this come about? Did you know she was a porn star? Did you approach her or did she you? Was it like a pro porn scenario or was it more "homemade" style?

Whatever you want to share, even if it's nothing, it's fine :)

I also have an absolutely overpowering leg fetish. Just the sight of a woman’s legs is enough to get me unbelievably aroused.
Any pair of female legs? When you're outside, you walk around with a stiffy?
 
Can you say more about this? How did this come about? Did you know she was a porn star? Did you approach her or did she you? Was it like a pro porn scenario or was it more "homemade" style?

Whatever you want to share, even if it's nothing, it's fine :)


Any pair of female legs? When you're outside, you walk around with a stiffy?

I didn’t know at the time. I guess I was what most people would call a “late bloomer”, and didn’t have many prospects, sexually speaking. I had discovered sex at a really young age, and had built it up to an unreasonable level in my mind, to the point that I was too terrified to even approach women to start any kind of intimate relationship. So anyways, I figured the only solution was to go to a legal brothel outside my town, where this woman was working at the time. I contacted her by email through the brothel’s website and set up an appointment. I told her it was my first time, and she was incredibly kind and understanding about it, and she made it a wonderful experience that I’ve never regretted one bit. I only found out later that she was in “the biz”. I’ve watched her videos many times, and still can’t believe that I got to have sex with her.

As for my leg fetish, it developed at a very young age, probably 4 or 5 years. I just remember always being turned on by the site of women’s legs. I remember seeing the pantyhose forms in stores and getting a “special feeling”. Not really ANY pair of legs, but most that anybody would think are attractive. I do prefer a bit of thickness, but have a wide variety of tastes. I remember actually masturbating in elementary school once, to a teacher I had a huge crush on, when I noticed I could see up her dress during story time. I can control my erection somewhat, but I do get really turned on when I see a nice pair of legs.
 
I didn’t know at the time. I guess I was what most people would call a “late bloomer”, and didn’t have many prospects, sexually speaking. I had discovered sex at a really young age, and had built it up to an unreasonable level in my mind, to the point that I was too terrified to even approach women to start any kind of intimate relationship. So anyways, I figured the only solution was to go to a legal brothel outside my town, where this woman was working at the time. I contacted her by email through the brothel’s website and set up an appointment. I told her it was my first time, and she was incredibly kind and understanding about it, and she made it a wonderful experience that I’ve never regretted one bit. I only found out later that she was in “the biz”. I’ve watched her videos many times, and still can’t believe that I got to have sex with her.

As for my leg fetish, it developed at a very young age, probably 4 or 5 years. I just remember always being turned on by the site of women’s legs. I remember seeing the pantyhose forms in stores and getting a “special feeling”. Not really ANY pair of legs, but most that anybody would think are attractive. I do prefer a bit of thickness, but have a wide variety of tastes. I remember actually masturbating in elementary school once, to a teacher I had a huge crush on, when I noticed I could see up her dress during story time. I can control my erection somewhat, but I do get really turned on when I see a nice pair of legs.

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate it. Everyone has such different experiences.

I have more questions, lol. Would you be open to maybe answering more?
 
I didn’t know at the time. I guess I was what most people would call a “late bloomer”, and didn’t have many prospects, sexually speaking. I had discovered sex at a really young age, and had built it up to an unreasonable level in my mind, to the point that I was too terrified to even approach women to start any kind of intimate relationship. So anyways, I figured the only solution was to go to a legal brothel outside my town, where this woman was working at the time. I contacted her by email through the brothel’s website and set up an appointment. I told her it was my first time, and she was incredibly kind and understanding about it, and she made it a wonderful experience that I’ve never regretted one bit. I only found out later that she was in “the biz”. I’ve watched her videos many times, and still can’t believe that I got to have sex with her.

1. Had you "built sex up to an unreasonable level in your mind" because you had started masturbating really early? Or because of other reasons?

2. What's a brothel like? I've seen on tv but what are they like in reality?

3. Does watching her videos give you a different type/ level of arousal than other videos?
 
1. Had you "built sex up to an unreasonable level in your mind" because you had started masturbating really early? Or because of other reasons?

2. What's a brothel like? I've seen on tv but what are they like in reality?

3. Does watching her videos give you a different type/ level of arousal than other videos?
4. How much was the charge? :)
5. Did you try anything from that night with your first lover ?
6. do you think of your time with her when you're with someone making love/sex?
 
1. Had you "built sex up to an unreasonable level in your mind" because you had started masturbating really early? Or because of other reasons?

2. What's a brothel like? I've seen on tv but what are they like in reality?

3. Does watching her videos give you a different type/ level of arousal than other videos?
1. I think that might have been part of it. I can remember touching myself, and feeling ashamed of it, at that early age, but not knowing why I felt ashamed. I just remember not wanting anybody to know I was doing it, because they might be upset with me. Also, when I was growing up sex was not talked about in my family, so it was this really mysterious thing that I didn’t think I’d ever understand or experience for myself. Even in high school and into my twenties it felt completely unattainable for me. There were girls I knew were interested in me, but the thought of making any kind of move on them felt like an outrageous notion, as if they would be completely repulsed by such an advance.

2. The brothel was a bit of a surreal experience. I went on a weekday, in the middle of the day, so I was the only, um, patron who was there, that I know of. I waited in the front parlor, which was decorated sort of like a room in the Playboy Mansion might be, with a mirrored wall and curtains, pin-up art, etc. The lady I had made my appointment with met me in there after several minutes, took me back to her bedroom, where I took a shower and then we had our session. Of course, I paid her up front, and she took that out to the Madame to split it with the house, while I was in the shower. And then we had our session, which was around an hour and a half. After we were done she walked me back out to the front door, where she gave me a big, warm hug and we thanked each other. I stayed in email contact with her for a while, but I never went back after that one visit.

3. Yes, I feel much more of a connection when I watch her videos, and it brings back some really vivid memories of the little bit of time I spent with her. She’s gorgeous, I can’t help thinking the whole time that I’ve literally been there. I’ve actually had wonderful sex with this incredibly beautiful and somewhat famous woman. And that’s a huge turn-on.
 
4. How much was the charge? :)
5. Did you try anything from that night with your first lover ?
6. do you think of your time with her when you're with someone making love/sex?
Oops, sorry. Didn’t see this post until now.

4. There was no standard price. I negotiated a payment with the lady over email, which was $500. That might be a tad high, but the experience was worth every penny.
5. We did a whole bunch of different things. Nothing out of the ordinary, just several different positions - missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, oral (her on me - the other way was not allowed). So I think I tried pretty much all of them, and then some, with my first girlfriend.
6. I think about it all the time. As far as first experiences go, it had to be about the best possible. She was amazing, kind, understanding and totally appreciative that I had chosen her to have my first time with.
 
Oops, sorry. Didn’t see this post until now.

4. There was no standard price. I negotiated a payment with the lady over email, which was $500. That might be a tad high, but the experience was worth every penny.
5. We did a whole bunch of different things. Nothing out of the ordinary, just several different positions - missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, oral (her on me - the other way was not allowed). So I think I tried pretty much all of them, and then some, with my first girlfriend.
6. I think about it all the time. As far as first experiences go, it had to be about the best possible. She was amazing, kind, understanding and totally appreciative that I had chosen her to have my first time with.
Thank you for sharing that :)
 
My wife of 17 years will not shave her pussy for me. I've asked, pleaded dam right got on my knees and begged for the last 3 years to no avail. Is it me in the wrong trying to pressure her into this or do you think she's got every right to refuse to do it for me.
 
It's her body, if she wants to keep her beaver with some hair, let her. If she wants to shave or trim, she will do it on her own time. You pestering her about is just gonna make her grow it out more for spite, and kudos to her for doing so.
 
My wife of 17 years will not shave her pussy for me. I've asked, pleaded dam right got on my knees and begged for the last 3 years to no avail. Is it me in the wrong trying to pressure her into this or do you think she's got every right to refuse to do it for me.

You shouldn't pressure anybody in to doing anything. No is no. Deal with it.
 
Men in uniforms. OMG, the sexiest, hottest. Military, navy, airforce, paramedics, doctors. Doesnt matter if they are current or ex.

The power of the uniform,the purported discipline, resilience and dominance, the physically fit bods that come with it... holy fuck.

Honestly, it isnt even necessary that it be a uniformed type of job. It is all about the discipline, dominance and athleticism. These uniformed professions are more often than not service-oriented. What is sexier than a man upholding principles and saving lives?

A-men!
 

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