It wasn't lemon
Thoughts Share some good advice
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the only person who can heal your trauma is the person who caused that trauma. and until they do, be kind to yourself and let your trauma be a proud part of you. otherwise, you'll always resent things you never had control over
you can't control what people say or think but you can control how you react to it so choose your reaction carefully
My current mode of operation
Practice makes perfect x
Smile at random strangers you may just be the reason why they will keep on going
Turning 50 this year so … ouch!
I don’t have much good advice, but I did get some that I will pass on… if you need help, get it. Ask for it. There’s no shame in getting the help you need.
Not everything needs an action or reaction. Sometimes just letting it be is the best thing to do for your own sanity.
Love yourself first second and last ... then you will not let people use you as it please them you will have healthy boundaries because you respect yourself too much to be a doormatt to others
Let your no be your no and your yes your yes
If you made a promise keep it
Let your no be your no and your yes your yes
If you made a promise keep it
Busty's tip of the day: Just pay the $5 for shipping and get tracking. Don't mail small things in letters with stamps. There's no tracking, it can get lost easily, and you will more than likely lose more than the $5 you were trying to be stingy with. It's not worth it. Always have tracking. It will save you in the long-run.
Be happy in yourself, your relationship, and the choices you’ve made rather than focussing on animosity towards others. Or you’ll just look like a bitch.
Never be afraid to tell your story, it's who you are and you shouldn't be ashamed of something that wasn't your fault or who you became and are or were. Love yourself and who you are, be proud you survived.
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Make sure to open the door before walking through it or before yelling at someone on the other side of the door.
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If a fan is spinning, don't stick your fingers in it to see whether it's spinning, because you can already see that it's spinning.
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When using a knife, remember which end is the stabby part.
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Check if the chair is actually under you before sitting. Gravity doesn’t care about your confidence.
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f your foot is stuck in a shoe, try taking off the shoe. If it doesn't seem like you're wearing the shoe, there's no need to take it off anything.