You know by now. I'm not submissive per say... But I wouldn't refuse anything. I like a good tease...and you're nice enough to make it fun.
It's so funny how people are wired differently I looking at all the little video snippets and I'm extremely turned on but the idea of me just totally giving up control to someone else is so alien ...
Tbh it is kind of liberating. The pressure is lifted and it is all about the anxiety and fun of it all. I'm a fan of blindfolds...
Thank you for the personal answer so many times the dialog is less pointed and honest regarding the subject.
No problem. I can go both ways, but I think for me too, I try so hard to control everything else in my life that it is kind of therapeutic to just...let go of this one thing sometimes...to fully trust her.
Personally, i like to play dominatrix with guys because there is no way in hell that one of them will touch me ! One, because i'm a lesbian. But mostly two, because i'm been abused in the past. But i'm not a sadist, i don't like the idea of pain itself. I like it light. The power play and the tease. With women, it's different. I'm so fucking weak in front of them. I'll submit easily. But again, not a fan of humiliation or pain (or maybe a little spanking ). It's the same, about power. And i'll gladly give it to a woman i trust.