I dont imagine for women that it's that "something you don't want to see", and it's more to do with the context of seeing it. Whipping your cock out with no tease, no flirt, no build up, no sexy play, is saying more about your lack of imagination. That causes the lack of interest in yet another dick. I'm sure women have seen more cocks than they would like, and far too few of them have been attached to an interesting man. Tease a womans sexuality with your creativity, your brain, or at very least, any other part of your body and you would probably be more successful with your approach. Sorry to get all serious and bring down the fun, but your question struck a minor nerve, lol.
Aw shucks, lol. Thank you! At the risk of sounding like a preachy know it all, i just feel strongly that men can be better than we are, and it's a fairly easy fix, and it's awesome fun as well!