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PheonixxxMonroe said:
Oral ... When it cums to the gifting and receiving of some damn good head (is there any other kind?)

Do you have a preference as to who should go down first or do you not mind the order and just let go and let it happen depending on heat of moment, mood or who's lips end up at who's bits first?
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If I'm with someone I want to be, and given the opportunity, I'll be face first. I won't pass up an opportunity, and don't have to be first, but as it's one of my favorite things to do, you better believe if at all possible I'm going to be in between her legs at least once during a session, and most likely multiple times.

PheonixxxMonroe said:
Do you prefer it to be reciprocated by both of you at some stage during your romp or that only one of you should take Centre stage and get all the attention within one full round?
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I don't need reciprocation, I'm doing it for me and her, if she's in the mood, I'm not ever going to turn down having myself in her mouth, or anywhere else, if I'm at all able, I'm there. 69 is distracting, but at the same time it's really fucking enjoyable to me, yeah, I don't think I do my best work at that time, but again if she climbs on top of me when giving me a BJ, no words are needed, I know what to do!
 
Someguy1323 said:
If I'm with someone I want to be, and given the opportunity, I'll be face first. I won't pass up an opportunity, and don't have to be first, but as it's one of my favorite things to do, you better believe if at all possible I'm going to be in between her legs at least once during a session, and most likely multiple times.


I don't need reciprocation, I'm doing it for me and her, if she's in the mood, I'm not ever going to turn down having myself in her mouth, or anywhere else, if I'm at all able, I'm there. 69 is distracting, but at the same time it's really fucking enjoyable to me, yeah, I don't think I do my best work at that time, but again if she climbs on top of me when giving me a BJ, no words are needed, I know what to do!
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Each to their own and all that but wow, You ROCK Somesy!! I love your work!!
 
Thalassa said:
When you're getting a blowjob and you're close to cumming, is it crucial that the sucking motions and intensity be unchanged until you cum?

Is it a case of "the train has left the station" and nothing will cause the rise of the orgasm to falter?
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Considering I haven't received a BJ in just over ten years, it's hard...to say. ;)

Honestly, I'm with someguy on this one. I'd just be happy to get one...unlike him though, a little teeth action is fun...:oops:

I've never asked for one. If she wants to great, if not that's cool, so it's really up to her if she wants me to finish somewhere other than her mouth. But to really answer your question, there is a point of no return...no matter how hard I kegel or clench my butt cheeks, I'm cumming even if she stops.
 
Ok, so one of the reasons I love prone boning is that it highlights the male dominance, testosterone filled energy..feels so raw and barbaric
(So hawt)

So my question is this: do you love to fulfill that take lead position and make her yours. Or can you keep the pace with a dominant woman thats high octane and in charge?
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
What is it about women that confuses you the most?
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The same thing that confuses me about men the most.... figuring them out. I try not to treat women any different than I treat men, I don't see them as any more emotional or unstable or any of the other stereotypical things, I see them as humans. Some people I just don't get, it could be a man or woman, and honestly I'm not good at figuring people out, but if I treat everyone with the same respect, I'll either get along with them or not.
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
Ok, so one of the reasons I love prone boning is that it highlights the male dominance, testosterone filled energy..feels so raw and barbaric
(So hawt)

So my question is this: do you love to fulfill that take lead position and make her yours. Or can you keep the pace with a dominant woman thats high octane and in charge?
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I like to think I can keep pace or set it, but I'm conceited and ever so humble...I really don't know the answer to this, but I like to read my own writing sometimes.
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
So my question is this: do you love to fulfill that take lead position and make her yours. Or can you keep the pace with a dominant woman thats high octane and in charge?
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I definitely am in charge in bed. It something I learned over time though. I have always only been attracted to strong women, but that is part of the arousement: watch and feel her abandon herself to me...
 
LilithX said:
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
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I have/do explore anal stimulation quite often. My orgasms I find are more intense and satisfying. And I could be totally off base here but I feel like my load not only is larger in volume but I tend to get some pretty good distance with it as well lol. So, I am definitely not afraid. Exploring it with the women that I have been with is a different story. I openly told an ex once that I would be comfortable with toys being used on me and she seemed awkward after that conversation - so we never talked about it again. I have mentioned it to one other partner and she didn't seem awkward at all but was more so disinterested in the topic. I feel it's healthy to explore sexually with yourself and with your partner. Sure, anal stimulation for guys is seen as something that only gay men do - but to those that think of it that way are just not willing to open themselves up sexually. I think it shows a very high level of intimacy for someone to be open
 
Thalassa said:
Men, what expectations did you have of women, or of men (if you lean that way), when you signed up to fcn?

Have your expectations been met or not?
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No expectations. I take everything as I find it. I came on here to chat and have a laugh. That’s what’s happened. It’s also helped my confidence. The women on here are beautiful and some have been very supportive. That’s a bonus
 
LilithX said:
Let’s talk about the male g-spot (P-spot, technically)! How comfortable are you exploring anal/prostate stimulation with your partner? Some men are afraid of the assumptions that come with finding pleasure in anal play, when in reality...you’re missing out if you haven’t tried! :D As a man, do you find that it’s uncommon to find women interested in exploring this sort of pleasure with you? Do you feel that this exploration has to be kept quiet or else people automatically wonder if your gay? Feel free to share any other thoughts on the topic!
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With the right partner anything is possible. I have done it and it blew my mind. I was sceptical at first but didn’t worry about the assumptions as it was with a beautiful woman. Have to say I’m not put off doing it again. It was very intense.
 
PheonixxxMonroe said:
What is it about women that confuses you the most?
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Both sexes can overthink and assume things in a situation and create confusion in their own minds aswell as in the minds of people they meet.
So i don't think that only women are confusing but men can be equally confusing too.

Now my answer to your question, Pheo, is that not all women are meant to be understood by everyone. They just need to be understood by people who are really close to her and who she can trust. So, if you're one the people who she chooses to confuse then you might be of more importance to her than you think you are and what you need to do is just listen to her and hope that you don't confuse yourselves cuz she's probably gonna get the solution to the confusion on her own... It's just that she needed a non-judgemental ear lol. (I hope it's not* too confusing haha ;))
 
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WomenRfromVenus said:
Interesting you say this. I think feistiness and strength is very attractive.
But I have seen some say, they do not like bratty women or having to tame bratty women.
Because thats the whole buildup with a brat. Creating tension
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There’s a big difference between being a strong woman and being a little brat though. Strength shouldn’t be confused with being an asshole surely?
 
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