Ladies, what do you / don't you like about 69?
In real life I wish people would stop asking me where I'm going, what I'm doing to be dressed the way that I am. I dress very alternatively and I'm into different non-mainstream styles and it's tiring to humor people who think it's weird all the time or that I must be doing something when in truth I'm just running errands or doing mundane things just like you are.
In chat, I wish people would stop asking nerd clichés like "do you prefer Star Wars or Star Trek" "what comic book hero do you like" they are lame icebreakers and I hear them a million times.
Bonus question: "How's the pandemic treating you?" everything is literally on fire right now, stop asking me this lol
I'm only attracted to nerds or at least people who are very similar to myself. I don't believe in opposites attract. I would have to really like you if we had nothing in common or very little in common. Dating someone who isn't a nerd is really difficult. There's too much nonsense to explain and I don't want to be judged for all the stupid shit I like that a nerd wouldn't judge me for.
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SubSoph
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Its perfectly fine! Everyone has shit to figure out, and everyone goes through things-its natural. Would never reject anyone because of it. As long as they are doing "something." By that, I mean they aren't just sitting on their ass all day, playing videogames or watching Youtube. If I'm in a relationship with someone, it is absolutely not going to be a one way street. I don't tolerate people who do nothing all day well, and to think of being in a relationship with someone who does exactly that.. fuck no. So yes, it is okay to be figuring things out, undecided, and not knowing what to do/having hard times, we all do-though, being ignorant in a relationship is not.
It depends, to be fair. If I'm in the mood to give and receive, I'll do it. Though, I'm most likely not, and its a rare occurrence. I usually prefer giving than receiving, and I'm not a very good multitasker. If I'm enjoying whats going on (moaning, whimpering, etc), I woulden't be able to concentrate on what I'm doing. So, sometimes, but mostly likely not. I prefer posing in 69, and taking a funny photo. I'm not weird... I swear.
Hair, no doubt. Though, like @Busty_Nerd said, its their body, and they can do whatever the fuck they want! I wont cry in a corner about it.
Ok so here is one that I need a bit of feedback on.
Would you date a guy who is 42 but living with his mother? I’ll qualify that with a bit of a back story. I’ve just split up with my wife and left her with the house, but due to the world being on fire lol yes I’m quoting you @Busty_Nerd the house has no equity in it so selling would be a mistake as we would be due the bank money. We had no children so it’s been quite an amicable split but I’m back to square one basically. I’m a self employed joiner and make good money but unfortunately due to lockdown am unable to work, I have a government contract working in local housing but they can’t let me in. Once back I plan to save to buy a home but financially it makes sense to remain at my mums in order to save more faster. So what would you think if you met a guy under those circumstances, would you be interested or would you run for the hills?
Thanks in advance ladies a appreciate any feedback
Would you date a guy who is 42 but living with his mother? I’ll qualify that with a bit of a back story. I’ve just split up with my wife and left her with the house, but due to the world being on fire lol yes I’m quoting you @Busty_Nerd the house has no equity in it so selling would be a mistake as we would be due the bank money. We had no children so it’s been quite an amicable split but I’m back to square one basically. I’m a self employed joiner and make good money but unfortunately due to lockdown am unable to work, I have a government contract working in local housing but they can’t let me in. Once back I plan to save to buy a home but financially it makes sense to remain at my mums in order to save more faster. So what would you think if you met a guy under those circumstances, would you be interested or would you run for the hills?
Thanks in advance ladies a appreciate any feedback
Ooo now what's not to love about a 69er lol
ooo wait I know lol Someone that can't take the weight .....and one of the best turn ons about a 69er would have to be the rolling around lol
It's dosen't bother me to be honest
...If their chest is as hairy as a snug bear then snug it will be and if their chest is half and half then you get the best of both world , some skin and some hair lol ...But as long as they have a snail trail I'd be in heaven lol
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Slopps
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It's dosen't bother me to be honest
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Is this hypothetical 42 year old man kind to his mother, or just squatting in her home because he doesn't know what else to do?
It is an insanely trivial point, living in a parent's home, in finding someone attractive, interesting, relationship worthy. Life has all kinds of twists and turns, prospective partners get that or they don't.
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Sarah_56
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Sarah_56
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I agree with u so that makes us both b's.....For me, it would be a major turn off. I am attracted to men who have their shit together, meaning I respect independence and a good hustle. If I was in the same circumstance, I would have came up with an alternate plan i.e hotel, rental property, apartments, room mates etc. Something temporary until you buy a new house (Sorry if this sounds bitchy lol). I just think its super easy to go running back to mommy and daddy when your down and out and I prefer difficult men
Leeching off of others not an attractive character trait …. plus... why would anyone get involved with someone that still owns property with an ex???? No thank-you...next!!
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Sarah_56
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Yes and no. My best friend has always been prettier more flirtatious and more of a man magnet than I (not hard to be, as it happens) and I have often wished I had that confidence and willingness to be so easily ... well, promiscuous.. but I do not begrudge her that, I just wistfully sometimes wish I had it myself. And, I have family, children, grandchildren that she does not - and despite her beauty and star status in our teens, I was the one who got fucked first so Plain Jane isn't always last.
Running home to mommmy? Not since grade school!... haha
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Sarah_56
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That's like the most important thing!!
For me anyway....
Why else be around anyone else that can't make u laugh?
GotchaToxic men are so much more fun
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Sarah_56
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Insensitive and a jerk is never appealing, degrading depends.
Online, a man who is directly sexual, and goes further than one might want in real life, can be exciting but also - to me at least - less worrying because the attachment can be only sexual whereas a real relationship that goes beyond sex carries much more risk, emotionally and of spilling over into real life.
lol
Makes perfect sense. There is some thrill to conflict.
