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Busty_Nerd said:
I mean, I've been there, I think everyone has been here. I think as long as you're actively trying to get into a better position like trying to find your passion, looking for new jobs, volunteering places, finding new hobbies etc. Then that would be great. And if you suffer from mental illness as long as you are taking your meds, getting therapy, talking to doctors, attempting to seek help for your depression/mental illness then I wouldn't be turned off by this. I've been around many people my entire life who have had mental illness so I am very sensitive to that issue. I personally couldn't be around someone who refuses to seek help for their mental illness. But periods of low motivation are normal for people with certain mental illnesses so I would understand if this issue would come up if we decided to become an official couple.
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Yep Yep...xox :)
 
CyberGuy69 said:
Ladies....How do you feel about guys who don't quite have everything figured out yet and still have issues to deal with? E.g Still unsure of what to do in life, not quite sure of himself and still maybe dealing with things like anxiety, depression or periods of low motivation.
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@Busty_Nerd said it very well.
CyberGuy69 said:
Ladies....How do you feel about guys who don't quite have everything figured out yet and still have issues to deal with? E.g Still unsure of what to do in life, not quite sure of himself and still maybe dealing with things like anxiety, depression or periods of low motivation.
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It depends on the following:

(1) the extent of the issues he comes with
(2) what he contributes to the other person's life
(3) the level of independence or co-dependence
(4) his outlook on life
(5) how seriously and actively he takes and manages his mental health
(6) to what extent is he willing to be part of her life, or is it mostly me-me-me
(7) whether he uses his issues to guilt trip / emotionally abuse / physically abuse / etc. her.
(8) his age and her age / the stage of life they are in.
(9) is she left living half a life because she now has to give up activities / drop goals / surrender her dreams

All in all, when two people come together for a relationship the overall sum of their lives has to be more than their separate lives. If it isn’t, then the relationship isn't worth being in.
 
CyberGuy69 said:
Ladies....How do you feel about guys who don't quite have everything figured out yet and still have issues to deal with? E.g Still unsure of what to do in life, not quite sure of himself and still maybe dealing with things like anxiety, depression or periods of low motivation.
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Honestly someone that is confident, motivated, and passionate is much more attractive than what you described above.
 
WomenRfromVenus said:
What is your idea of emotional intimacy?
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Having long talks, watching a show together, going places or doing clean activities and spending time together.

WomenRfromVenus said:
How important is it for someone to make you smile?
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Well probably couldn't date/be with someone who was serious all the time and couldn't be silly sometimes or didn't have a sense of humor.

WomenRfromVenus said:
Do you think dreaming of someone has any real significance or importance?
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No, I dream of nonsensical things all the time. I don't think my dreams have any deeper meanings for me. But I don't actually believe that dreams hold any type of significance over my real life. No offense if anyone believes otherwise.
 
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